Sadly this situation has turned out exactly as I feared.
Europe, the USA, etc, are losing their will to keep helping with a situation that looks endless. The Ukrainians are gaining nothing and lives are being lost or destroyed. I said, from the start, that it had to be either one thing or the other, not the situation we currently have.
Either NATO, USA, Europe, UK, etc, immediately get together, send in troops and tell Putin to quit ...
... or put up no resistance and start negotiations on day one.
In my mind the second choice is the best because, however sad for the people, it has to be better than what is happening now.