Ah, I see. Well, yeah I see you're 24. I certainly wasn't anywhere near ready at your age. It was only when I got to 30 that I felt at all ready. I can remember the feeling now. I was holding a friend's baby in my arms and I began to know I could be ready for all that followed. As it happened, within 6 months I was with a GF who I knew was the love of my life. We married within 2 years in NZ and had 10 wonderful years together before we grew apart. We actually loved each other so much we both didn't want children to spoil what we had, and believe me we'd talk about it often. Those were the truly happiest years of my life and I can't you how wonderful they were. I am so lucky to have had that time with her and although we live apart we still are very fond of each other. Would you be ready for that..? If you're not you are right to live your single life a bit longer.