I haven't played Fallout 4 but I agree with some of the criticism I've seen about the forced storyline; I don't want to be a mother/father with a freakish little baby who then spends the game whining about their family. That's not roleplaying my own character. Just copy the start to Fallout 3 where I live my own life.
But I see what you mean, and have noticed that a fair amount of reviews mention that they would rather build up from nothing, rather than being a ready made father/mother chucked into a world of nuclear waste...
I don't mind that, it's something that gives you purpose and helps you decide who you want to be, yes you can do this from nothing but giving you that sense of responsibility is quite clever as it forces you to be good/bad parent and I wonder if the choices make a difference at some point.
As I said I don't fast travel in these game and I would recommend doing the same, it will take you forever to get to the end but it's a very rewarding way to play these type of games.
I will start saving toward an XBone I think, I have to get this game.
