what a really nice reply for Tees to read,its great to have support this time of the year,p.s.what time do you want us for xmas dinner
There's already 11 of us it's going to be mayhem. By about 5 or so I have no doubt my feet will be up and eyes shut .
All ready here, but I've dropped a proper bollock, booked to take my 2 grandsons to the pantomime, only just found out it's at 2pm on the 18th, an hour before the World Cup Final. Gonna take some creative planning if we get through.
I think the tree is tall as that lad at the back yesterday for Millwall …lol. Not good at posting these pics and text. Hoping one day will get the call from Santa that I can work with the elves so sorry to hear about people’s recent losses on this post. God bless them.
This is my first post on here for quite some time. Had a pretty **** time over the last 4 months it so. Big money worries due to job struggles and my own business not performing as well as expected. My season card got cancelled due to the fact I couldnt pay the monthly instalments so footy and messageboards in general have taken something if a back seat. Jobs wise things are looking a lot better and hoping for something more permanent in the new year. Been finding it a massive struggle to get excited about footy in any shape or form lately. Hoping the new year brings some more interest.
Cheers mate. Been a dark few months but hopefully better weather ahead. Plus side it’ll soon be the new cricket season which always improves my mood.
Always here if u fancy a chat mate. Life is hard right now for alot of people so us good folk need to be there for eachother. I struggle to get out of bed some days mate so I feel your pain
Christmas usually makes it worse somehow. For me what helps handle the problems that face me is, regular exercise and less drinking,(unfortunately). Also coming on here and naming your worries or talking through them with family (I have an uncle who had always been more like a big brother, who steadies me) or friends. So as long as it is not something like gambling ( seen a few friends fall to that addiction) you sound like the sort of bloke that will put things right, given time.
I've seeked help despite being in denial I now realise if I keep my life going the way I am I'll die at a very young age and not see my lads grow up. I have inner demons to do with my childhood that I find impossible to shake off and I dream every night of being a kid in this situation. When I wake up I'm full of rage and literally want to hurt and take my frustration out on people. I cant live like this anymore, all either seriously hurt someone or myself and my lads dont deserve that
for me it’s always been money. That’s my biggest demon. I very rarely drink and do t gamble(used to do matched betting but cleaned out the money to pay debts). I’ve been trying to start my own business which didn’t go as well as expected. It’s cricket related so will probably end up being seasonal so I need to find something that i can do during the winter months.
It seems you have at least admitted you need to change things. that’s the biggest step imo. good luck.
