So...we are discussing a fan being banned for saying something about a players dead child and you bring up
1) fans arrested at a Liverpool v United match and the press calling it a peaceful match
2) stewarding at west ham
3) the colour of Jake Livermores skin
4) Everton getting public money
5) spurs fans petitions
Seriously mate you are making a mistake.
In September 2008 some spurs fans sang an infamous song about sol Campbell. Some fans were banned and others arrested. One father and son caught up in it went public and proved that they had not joined in. They called witnesses and protested their innocence very loudly from the minute they were accused.
The most telling thing in this case is the fan is silent. mocking a dead child is taboo and NO ONE would accept a punishment for it if they were innocent in my opinion cos it would make them look like scum. Only a guilty person would accept the charge quietly in the hope it will die down and be forgotten about.
I hope the person has learned that it ain't
Ok to say whatever you want to someone and becomes a kinder person as a result.
You feel West ham are treated poorly by the media and other fans but are talking nonsense in this case.
Your comment about Jake Livermore "but hey, he's black and lost a child so he can't be wrong can he" is disgraceful as it suggests you think he used his race and dead child to get out of a ban.
I do not think you have thought about this incident properly as a person...you are looking at it as a West ham fan and are refusing to think logically.
West Ham have not denied the incident took place when it would be in their interest to.
The fan has not pleaded his innocence when it is in his interest to do so.
West Brom fully backed him when it would have been in their best interests to get Livermore help if he was imagining insults about his child.
Livermore has stuck to his version of events when he would not get a serious punishment if he came out and said that he over reacted due to his grief and needs help.
The FA (who banned Cantona who was racistly abused) would not believe Livermore without reason.
The police have believed him cos they did not even warn him for going into the crowd.
You have ignored all of this and chose to believe some Twitter posts.
It is in NO ONE'S interests to let Livermore believe he is right when it is clear he is wrong.
I still struggle with my baby son' s death 23 years ago. I have had long term counselling on the NHS twice and have been referred again. I have immense feelings of guilt, self hate and guilt at times so kind of understand some of what Livermore has gone through.
I also have experience of how professionals would be responding to his emotional state of mind and NO professions would allow him to believe his dead son was used against him if it were not the case as it would damage his mental health and his ability to cope.
I ain't sharing cos I want your sympathy but cos I think you should have a better insight into what else is involved.
Sorry if I have bored anyone worse than the Chelsea v Arsenal game with this mammoth post