Good post mate.
None of us know the facts so, by default, I'll believe the club otherwise you have to assume they're liars.
I criticise the club, when I see fit, but often find my criticism was based on a misunderstanding.
I don't mind other people moaning, if it's reasonable, but don't like personal stuff either.
I don't like some of the pre-emptive criticism which I think is pointless ...
... 'if Beale starts without a striker there'll be hell on', 'if Stoke score first the atmosphere will be toxic', etc.
Neither things happened so that moaning was pointless and a little demoralising which is a shame.
I always believe, here or at the match, your mood affects those around you ... just my opinion.