What's amazing to me is that there's only 5 or 6 years between me and syd, and we only lived 10 or 12 miles apart. And yet we grew up in different worlds! We knew about black and asian people because we had students (male and female) from the African and West Indian colonies (as was) and from India and Pakistan at Sunderland Technical College, then situated at the bottom end of Durham Rd. My mother was a strong racist, pulling me to one side in the street if a "Jew-boy" was approaching and she regarded "blacks!" as little more than apes. But us young'uns kind of admired the students because the first thing a black guy bought when he could afford it was a nice suit and, especially, a white shirt. The white used to gleam against the black and brown skins and they always looked bloody immaculate. "Most hip, man".
*****philia was rife on the Fulwell End at Roker. It was common knowledge that if a man stood in front of you with his hands held behind his back, you'd best move because 'Eeee, he'll get your willie!' Some of them were well known for it. There was a well known guy who usually stood behind the goal among the kids, pick out one of a suitable height, and slip his hands round your thighs and press against your bum when the crowd got excited and wouldn't notice. I never had the experience but knew well how to avoid it!
Shop keepers and doctors were about the same as you describe. And foreign take-aways hadn't arrived. But drugs were a bit different. A lot of men had come home from places like Borneo, Singapore, North Africa and the Middle East with a liking for substances, and, in the late-1940s the demand for them in Britain rocketed. The 1951 Dangerous Drugs Act was pushed through to stop the flow. It was a silly rush job which grouped e.g. hashish with heroin (and we still haven't sorted the mess out). LSD came in from California at first in the mid-1960s. I was in my twenties by then and took it once a week for seven years, till about 1975. Very good for me in a lot of ways, though it did do some people harm.
The big difference, then and now, was domestic violence. Today, some do-goodie social worker would have gone to court to ensure that I didn't remain in that house with those parents. I'd have been forcibly removed (which I would have liked to be honest). Going just a bit further back, my grandfather was considered an eccentric at Wearmouth Colliery because he never beat his wife.
Thanks for this post, syd. It was a genuine eye-opener for me. Sunderland isn't on the main railway line, and national bus services were unheard of so my north-east had no choice but to look outwards. Walks down the docks with grandad on Sunday afternoons opened up the world to me - "Where's Valparaiso grandad?" "Where's Oslo?" All these ships from magical places - wow! Your small village just ten miles away was just as foreign to me when I read it - amazing world.