Self restrainment O/T

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di5co said:
People might be different but the needs of children are pretty universal.

Knowingly doing something that could make them in any way worse off is reckless and irresponsible. Sorry I'd it seems harsh but I'd want to be told the same thing.

I realise footie forums isn't the place for liberal pacifism but I think it's best that both sides are argued for.

I love a fight, threw someone off a boat/pub into the Thames in Lambeth a couple of years ago. 18 months ago I spent 8 hours in A&E sat next to the lad I'd scrapped with, our faces were both ****ed. It's all fun and games while you're young and have no responsibility. Wouldn't do it now because of the missus. She's more important than some feeling of hurt pride.
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Can I respectfully ask you a question?
What would you do if some scrote humiliated you in front of your woman?
Or indeed, groped her arse or tits in front of you?
 
Billy Cattermole said:
Can I respectfully ask you a question?
What would you do if some scrote humiliated you in front of your woman?
Or indeed, groped her arse or tits in front of you?
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Did someone sexually harass Tees' missus? If that's what we're talking about I take everything back. He needs knocking into next week. I thought that this lad was just a gobshite?

As for humiliation... It's a self made concept and not why I subscribe to. My self respect is in no way tied to how other people perceive me, especially not when some knob tries to put me down in front of them. I wouldn't feel humiliated I'd feel sorry for the bloke. The chances are me and the missus would laugh about it. I've never been humiliated and I don't see it happening in the near future, I feel no need to impress or prove anything.
 
Funky Dick said:
You need to remember everyone is different as is the world they live in. What's right for one person isn't right for another. What I'm saying is If Tees doesn't sort this quietly and calculated something will kick off in front of his or the other blokes family, this is what we're trying to avoid. Your advice is basically letting the lad stew until he loses control and sees red regardless of the situation. It's **** advice because if that happened he'd lose his family and his freedom. He doesn't have the temperament you expect him to have to carry out your advice. It's great advice for someone like you, not for Tees as he has a different temperament entirely. What you're doing is asking a bottle of coke with mentos in it not to make a mess. It aint going to happen, the pressure will continue to build till eventually it explodes. It's easy to say just ignore him when he can't because of his temperament. It's ineffective advice. This will eat away at tees until he does something he regrets, this is what your advice will lead to.

Revenge is a dish best served cold imo, but some people like yourself would let the dish go stale, nowt wrong with that as that's the way your temperament is, you're lucky mate, someone like Tees can't let it cool. I love the fire in his belly but I bet he'd be the first to admit it carries it's problems, advice telling him to be somebody he's not just isn't going to work. Tees will have the **** sooner of later, it WILL happen. When it does it would be better to be calculated and controlled, not reckless and dangerous which is what happens if he lets it stew too long.
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****ing hell Funky. Thats a book and a half!
 
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Billy Cattermole said:
Can I respectfully ask you a question?
What would you do if some scrote humiliated you in front of your woman?
Or indeed, groped her arse or tits in front of you?
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Billy, last November I went out in Newcastle for a friends birthday, one of his mates was there with his missus. Now this couple have a bad habit of winding each other up when drinking by coming on to other people in front of each other. This bloke put his arm round my lass which normally it wouldn't bother me, but as it was him and he was giving his lass a smug look while he did it with her getting round up. I gave him a kicking before my lass got one off his lass. I was nicked and spent the night in cell with 5 pills hidden in a makeshift pouch in my boxers <laugh> Only got fined like. :cool:
 
di5co said:
Did someone sexually harass Tees' missus? If that's what we're talking about I take everything back. He needs knocking into next week. I thought that this lad was just a gobshite?

As for humiliation... It's a self made concept and not why I subscribe to. My self respect is in no way tied to how other people perceive me, especially not when some knob tries to put me down in front of them. I wouldn't feel humiliated I'd feel sorry for the bloke. The chances are me and the missus would laugh about it. I've never been humiliated and I don't see it happening in the near future, I feel no need to impress or prove anything.
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I'm sorry Disc, you've misinterpreted me.
I was asking a purely hypothetical question.
In so much that every man has a breaking point.
Some will break quicker than others is all I'm saying.
Personally I'd rather front somebody up & take a beating than sit & stew over it.
 
Funky Dick said:
Billy, last November I went out in Newcastle for a friends birthday, one of his mates was there with his missus. Now this couple have a bad habit of winding each other up when drinking by coming on to other people in front of each other. This bloke put his arm round my lass which normally it wouldn't bother me, but as it was him and he was giving his lass a smug look while he did it with her getting round up. I gave him a kicking before my lass got one off his lass. I was nicked and spent the night in cell with 5 pills hidden in a makeshift pouch in my boxers <laugh> Only got fined like. :cool:
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****ing hell Bri. <laugh>
 
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I'm sorry Disc, you've misinterpreted me.
I was asking a purely hypothetical question.
In so much that every man has a breaking point.
Some will break quicker than others is all I'm saying.
Personally I'd rather front somebody up & take a beating than sit & stew over it.
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Well causing physical and emotional pain to someone's missus is a bit different to causing hurt to a bloke's pride, two completely different things to me. One that should be shrugged off and another which should be acted upon.
 
Billy Cattermole said:
I'm sorry Disc, you've misinterpreted me.
I was asking a purely hypothetical question.
In so much that every man has a breaking point.
Some will break quicker than others is all I'm saying.
Personally I'd rather front somebody up & take a beating than sit & stew over it.
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Also... My missus is an Aussie country girl mate, the poor bastard wouldn't know what's hit him.
 
Funky Dick said:
You looking forward to drinking the Australian way?
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Their beer is immense mate. They don't serve fosters, Castlemaine or XXXX anywhere I've seen. VB (Victoria Bitter) is interesting. It's basically pig spit and anyone who drinks it is scum. Her old man does...

They've got James Squires which is beautiful and Coopers which is on a par with my favourite beer, Brooklyn.

Schooners are the perfect size for a beer as well. Half pints are too small and look girly, pints are too big and get flat/warm.

Add to that the weather while you're drinking and it's a ****ing winner mate.

I can't ****ing wait.
 
di5co said:
Their beer is immense mate. They don't serve fosters, Castlemaine or XXXX anywhere I've seen. VB (Victoria Bitter) is interesting. It's basically pig spit and anyone who drinks it is scum. Her old man does...

They've got James Squires which is beautiful and Coopers which is on a par with my favourite beer, Brooklyn.

Schooners are the perfect size for a beer as well. Half pints are too small and look girly, pints are too big and get flat/warm.

Add to that the weather while you're drinking and it's a ****ing winner mate.

I can't ****ing wait.
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It's the way they drink I like. Starting with a lower % breakfast beer and building strength throughout the day. These so called 'Australian' Beers in this country are brewed over here and have **** all to do with Aus. Most Aussies have even heard of Fosters. It's just a gimmick for us us.
 
di5co said:
Their beer is immense mate. They don't serve fosters, Castlemaine or XXXX anywhere I've seen. VB (Victoria Bitter) is interesting. It's basically pig spit and anyone who drinks it is scum. Her old man does...

They've got James Squires which is beautiful and Coopers which is on a par with my favourite beer, Brooklyn.

Schooners are the perfect size for a beer as well. Half pints are too small and look girly, pints are too big and get flat/warm.

Add to that the weather while you're drinking and it's a ****ing winner mate.

I can't ****ing wait.
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What's the other one?
Toohey's or summat?
 
Funky Dick said:
It's the way they drink I like. Starting with a lower % breakfast beer and building strength throughout the day. These so called 'Australian' Beers in this country are brewed over here and have **** all to do with Aus. Most Aussies have even heard of Fosters. It's just a gimmick for us us.
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Weird, for a country that drinks as much as we do we're happy to drink utter ****.

Carling, Fosters, Kronenbourg, Carlsberg, Stella and Peroni are considered ****ing awful anywhere other than Britain.

We call Peroni and Stella premium beers <laugh>

Billy Cattermole said:
What's the other one?
Toohey's or summat?
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Yeah I tried Toohey's I believe, that and Carlton draft, pretty average but far and away better than the ****e we tend to serve.
 
di5co said:
Weird, for a country that drinks as much as we do we're happy to drink utter ****.

Carling, Fosters, Kronenbourg, Carlsberg, Stella and Peroni are considered ****ing awful anywhere other than Britain.

We call Peroni and Stella premium beers <laugh>



Yeah I tried Toohey's I believe, that and Carlton draft, pretty average but far and away better than the ****e we tend to serve.
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Carling, Fosters & Carlsberg are ****ing J Arthur like, I'll give you that.
 
di5co said:
Weird, for a country that drinks as much as we do we're happy to drink utter ****.

Carling, Fosters, Kronenbourg, Carlsberg, Stella and Peroni are considered ****ing awful anywhere other than Britain.

We call Peroni and Stella premium beers <laugh>



Yeah I tried Toohey's I believe, that and Carlton draft, pretty average but far and away better than the ****e we tend to serve.
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Peroni and Stella is the best you get 90% of our Pubs. That's why I like Weatherspoons. You get a choice of some wonderful bottled continental beers.
 
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