I watched the Newcastle demos closely and know many who were involved, but I think we are best served by not copying them.
Their collective 'white sheet' games (remember the FA Cup?) were ineffectual, unpleasant and did the rep of the fan base no good whatsoever.
Their anger and rioting at the derby game was reprehensible; if that was supporting sport then count me out.
I saw many Newcastle and Sunderland supporters find reasons to stop buying season tickets and stop or reduce their attendance (just as at the KCOM); I have seen many of them return. I think it will be the same with us. I drive a lot during my work week so that extra weekend drive is probably my biggest disincentive these days, but who knows?
I haven't really joined in this discussion as I once would, mainly because I will not be there and don't feel comfortable arguing the toss.
What I would offer is that I totally understand your argument of inclusion, discussion and unity (I hope that does it justice). I also think it is a huge challenge to rationalise it on these threads. I maybe wrong but, perhaps, it is counterproductive to it's own aim of unity, as it clearly riles so many when pushed in the circumstances that have prevailed.
I trust the Trust. You know I have been a member from CTWD days, but you should also recall that I have pulled them up when I thought it necessary.
Time and resource must play a part, just as the unreliability of anonymous threads should do, too. I believe we should give the Trust an opportunity to do it their way and we should see where that takes us. The actions of others is for them to consider.
I think this sorry debacle is coming to an end and I hope it moves quickly.
What I think would be useful is for folk to discuss (as you have described) how to rebuild, rather than how to fight, as I think there are far more options for this and it is a more constructive group effort that will counter the destructive negativity surround the club. It would be excellent to show new owners that their customers (and potential customers) are caring, proactive and supportive.
The Trust do need to talk to the wider population, just as they need to talk to the Trust. I believe this happens to a degree, but I think circumstances make it difficult to develop in the right way.
Sorry, longer than intended; perhaps I still care more than I think.