Mate, I do feel your taking this to extreme and seeing what isn't there.
No-one on here or otr has even mentioned spending big, but people have posted genuine concerns about the way things have worked out.
Just the usual healthy discussions imo
Perhaps I'm seeing what isn't there ...
... or perhaps some are ignoring what is there.
It's my opinion of what people are thinking but not daft enough to say it out loud.
So they're being vague about it, that's my opinion.