Beefy's Corner - The Off-Topic Chat Thread

[PompeyLapras]

Whoops too late.

Oh well, that was fun while it lasted.

Sort of.

Personally I think you should just take some time out from chasing girls. From what I can guage, it's taking its toll on you and you don't need it, and in all honesty it seems like it's manifesting itself in you going after the wrong kind of girl, at this moment in time anyway.

Don't take it wrong, I know it's easier said than done, but we're all trying to help you out here.

Well, thanks, I do appreciate the advice. My initial target doesn't seem like the wrong type of girl, so I may try with her and if that doesn't work, then yes, take some time out perhaps.

 

[Beef]

You could have my gf for a week if you want? Will give me some peace for once.

 

[Qwerty]

Talking of GMI.........

http://www.saintsweb.co.uk/showthread.php?44557-Top-five-Gashton-Ramirez-Performances

This Gaston hatred thing is really starting to wind me up now. I know Gaston messed up today by lashing out, but when he came on he looked hungry, and didn't do anything wrong up to the point he saw red. I swear people are just not able to identify a good footballer.

60 posts in the 6 hours after a match that we lost? That sounds familiar. He did not seem to post so much when we won.

 

[(Conor)]

Well, thanks, I do appreciate the advice. My initial target doesn't seem like the wrong type of girl, so I may try with her and if that doesn't work, then yes, take some time out perhaps.

Yeah with her, it seems like she does like you, but you've been very unfortunate with events conspiring against you when it comes to meeting up with her. There will be a point where you may have put that one on ice for a while, but not necessarily forgetting about it forever, just to let you get your head right with how to pursue it.

 

[PompeyLapras]

Eurgh I feel sick.

Yeah with her, it seems like she does like you, but you've been very unfortunate with events conspiring against you when it comes to meeting up with her. There will be a point where you may have put that one on ice for a while, but not necessarily forgetting about it forever.

Yes, this thing with this other girl could be destiny pushing me towards the first girl, everything happens for a reason after all.

 

[TheSecondStain]

60 posts in the 6 hours after a match that we lost? That sounds familiar. He did not seem to post so much when we won.

He never posted at all when we won.

 

[TheSecondStain]

Found some excellent advice for you Pompeylapras.

[video=youtube;HqzMqAi_ZXE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HqzMqAi_ZXE[/video]

 

[PompeyLapras]

Eurgh I think I'm going to be sick (again).

Not cause of the video mind which is amusing. Is that from Dr Strangelove?!

 

[Downthe36]

Take some time out perhaps.

During the last 18 months I have been single for pretty much the only time during my adult life, and you know what...It's been bloody brilliant.

Don't get me wrong, to start with it felt like someone had cut my right leg off, but once you get your head around it.......

I can be late for pretty much anything but work, I can get hideously drunk and not apologise, I get to spend more time with my best mates, I can flirt with any girl I choose (large boyfriends aside), I've started playing football again for the 1st time in years, I can waste hours on online forums , in fact I can pretty much do what I want, when I want, without having to let ANYONE know. Brilliant!

The word "selfish" brings up many negative connotations, but do I regret being "selfish" for a little while, after being "selfless" for so long before....HELL NO!

That is all.

 

[TheSecondStain]

Eurgh I think I'm going to be sick (again).

Not cause of the video mind which is amusing. Is that from Dr Strangelove?!

What's the matter, sick wise, PL..?

No, it's not from Dr Strangelove, but it is the same voice Sellers uses. He did various versions - a twits version, an irish version, that is definitely not suitable for work [at the end of it], and a cockney version. Quite amusing and I imagine, hilarious at the time.

Sorry if I'm being a bit too light humoured for you. I presume you're feeling a bit down about this girl [I haven't read through Beefy today]. What's up, matey..?

 

[Beef]

You haven't read through me?

 

[PompeyLapras]

What's the matter, sick wise, PL..?

I haven't the foggiest tbh. It started last night, I think in response to seeing that thread.

I am down to some extent certainly, she seems nice and she now seems to have deleted me from RealID on WoW which was pretty much wholly how we communicated. Also, quite annoyingly is that it looked like I might possibly get some vistages of a social life, but I think that's unlikely now. But I honestly don't think I did anything wrong. So apparently things were awkward during our 'date', so I tried to apologise on WoW, got deleted from RealID and then sent her a text saying sorry for making things awkward. Which I got no reply from. But now I genuinely don't believe I'm going to hear from her again I think. Talk about a weird turn of events.

 

[OddRiverOakWizards]

PFA team of the year: De Gea (Man U), Zabaleta (Man C), Baines (Everton), Vertonghen (Spurs), Ferdinand (Man U), Carrick (Man U), Hazard (Chelsea), Mata (Chelsea), Bale (Spurs), van Persie (Man U), Suarez (Liverpool). Hmm...

 

[OddRiverOakWizards]

I haven't the foggiest tbh. It started last night, I think in response to seeing that thread.

I am down to some extent certainly, she seems nice and she now seems to have deleted me from RealID on WoW which was pretty much wholly how we communicated. Also, quite annoyingly is that it looked like I might possibly get some vistages of a social life, but I think that's unlikely now. But I honestly don't think I did anything wrong. So apparently things were awkward during our 'date', so I tried to apologise on WoW, got deleted from RealID and then sent her a text saying sorry for making things awkward. Which I got no reply from. But now I genuinely don't believe I'm going to hear from her again I think. Talk about a weird turn of events.

Hi PL, sometimes you can over analyse things and still be uncertain about the reasons of why things did not go as you would have wanted. Life is like that, things never go exactly as you expect, you may meet someone when you least expect and they are perfect. Sometimes it is best not to chase and just be yourself. Good luck.

 

[Joe!]

During the last 18 months I have been single for pretty much the only time during my adult life, and you know what...It's been bloody brilliant.

Don't get me wrong, to start with it felt like someone had cut my right leg off, but once you get your head around it.......

I can be late for pretty much anything but work, I can get hideously drunk and not apologise, I get to spend more time with my best mates, I can flirt with any girl I choose (large boyfriends aside), I've started playing football again for the 1st time in years, I can waste hours on online forums , in fact I can pretty much do what I want, when I want, without having to let ANYONE know. Brilliant!

The word "selfish" brings up many negative connotations, but do I regret being "selfish" for a little while, after being "selfless" for so long before....HELL NO!

That is all.

Yeah, I'm really wary about relationships that take too much freedom from you. Some couples seem to be constantly joined at the hip, but I think it's really important to each have your own separate lives. That's probably why so many married couples eventually get sick of each other.

The killer for me is being able to eat what you want. If I want to sit in my underwear eating Domino's and playing Skyrim on a Wednesday afternoon then that's what I'm going to do damn it!

 

[TheSecondStain]

I haven't the foggiest tbh. It started last night, I think in response to seeing that thread.

I am down to some extent certainly, she seems nice and she now seems to have deleted me from RealID on WoW which was pretty much wholly how we communicated. Also, quite annoyingly is that it looked like I might possibly get some vistages of a social life, but I think that's unlikely now. But I honestly don't think I did anything wrong. So apparently things were awkward during our 'date', so I tried to apologise on WoW, got deleted from RealID and then sent her a text saying sorry for making things awkward. Which I got no reply from. But now I genuinely don't believe I'm going to hear from her again I think. Talk about a weird turn of events.

Well, I'll give you some real advice which, I know you won't take, because we're all human and we have to run things through the way we see them. I used to suffer things through, like you, because I've been a sensitive chappie too, throughout my life, never wanting to hurt anyone, and internalising important things, so that others wouldn't be hurt, but what I often didn't do was, as they say today... move on. But that's what I suggest you do for your own good. Let it go. I know you think you should try to work things out with her, but don't try. It will almost certainly make things worse. Do what I didn't do and should have done, when I was your age. You can't be Mr Perfect and although I respect you for trying, there comes a time when you're the one who is suffering and everyone else has moved on. Time to do it. Honestly.

 

[(Conor)]

The killer for me is being able to eat what you want. If I want to sit in my underwear eating Domino's and playing Skyrim on a Wednesday afternoon then that's what I'm going to do damn it!

Stay classy.

 

[Dan]

The killer for me is being able to eat what you want. If I want to sit in my underwear eating Domino's and playing Skyrim on a Wednesday afternoon then that's what I'm going to do damn it!

That sounds amazing. I know what I'm doing as soon as I get out of uni tomorrow.

 

[Joe!]

That sounds amazing. I know what I'm doing as soon as I get out of uni tomorrow.

That's what uni is all about! Me and my housemate last year used to do **** like that all the time. Often his girlfriend would get involved. We really pissed the other two off, but they were lame.

 

[Beef]

Papa John's is better the Domino's tho.