Hmm I think your wumming days even pre-date this site mate, so
you will struggle to convince me otherwise. Wumming, banter, is there much difference between the two? I was a member from BBC606. Personally I don't mind, all are welcome for me (probably why I did **** all when I was mod).
Incest stuff has been around the banter/wumming stuff since year dot. Its a much ingrained subject for Norfolk people for instance. Nothing to get upset about in my opinion. Certainly no more boring or childish than endless 5-1 or 6 in a row comments. Most banter is pretty childish, 90% lacks intelligence too. The point is if you get a rise out of someone because they find a certain subject unacceptable or annoying (i.e. incest, families, results, bad decisions etc) then you are probably going to continue on that line.
I'm the wrong person to ask because there is very little I see as unacceptable. I wouldn't see it as any different to life in general. There are times when I wouldn't make a certain joke. I'm sure there is some subject I find unacceptable for jokes? I remember saying to Rog during the cross board thread days, that my mother was dead (she's still alive and well the old battleaxe), after he had said he had been booshing her and my sister (I haven't got). He had rage about me stooping to this level for about 3 years. I don't think he ever quite understood contradiction of his rage
I also hear people whinge on both our board and the mackem one about how the other board is like the gestapo with regard to bans, and you get a raw deal if you are not one of them. Of course you ****ing do, its their board and they'll protect their own because its those folk who keep that board alive.
I agree you do reap what you sow. If you come on for banter or wumming, you will get short shrift. As long as you know this, and can deal with the result then crack on. Otherwise its probably not for you.