Hmm I was going to guess at that. Does everyone know what the word 'mardy' means? Just a normal word for me but I have been told it is a Yorkshire thing.
It's pretty childish to think that in order to find the right person for you, you simply have to act like yourself constantly and somebody might eventually find it endearing. It takes time and work on both parts to get to that stage, if you want to have somebody you love and who loves you for being who you are it's an unfortunate fact that there's a bump at the beginning you need to get over by actually trying to show that you can be who they want you to be. Women like a guy who shows he is willing to adapt himself to them, even if he doesnt end up doing it.
I really don't know man, I don't see what I'd have to change about myself. It's not like I go out partying and getting pissed, or do anything mental. That sort of thing is what men have to nip in the bud to be in a proper relationship, I understand, but I'm just a pretty down to earth person, who likes football and music. Of course I'd be willing to adapt to be in a relationship, but if the girl was asking me to stop wearing a certain clothing or stop listening to a certain type of music just because they think it's weird, I wouldn't want to be with them, because I wouldn't ask them to give up anything like that to be with me.
Women are a pain in the arse tash. Try putting off having a girlfriend for as long as you can, and when you do eventually pull a girl, buy a box of aspirins, you're gonna need them mate.
That's like selling your soul. It's a proven fact that there is a woman out there for anyone, you just have to find here, or her to find you. You shouldn't have to change your music taste to impress a girl. My missus loves pop-punk music, i absolutely hate it, but i didn't pretend to like it. We just have common ground in other areas.
It's not about somebody asking you anything though, it won't ever get to the stage where they would ask you to do it if you continue to think inwardly like that. I know this from experience. When I first met my girlfriend, before we were together, shortly after my 18th I wore jeans and metal gig t shirts, listened to almost exclusively death metal and publically considered myself to be mediocre/unattractive as though it was the most important thing in the world. Sound familiar? After a short time with her as a good friend and nothing more, I knew what sort of things she liked (music, art, books etc.) which weren't what I was into at the time but I didn't totally hate them either so I got myself stuck into them and I had stuff to talk about and other levels with which I could connect with her. Over the course of a few more months I'd ended up slightly changing who I was and felt far better for it because I was with the girl I really wanted to be with. Over longer time obviously I completely changed and I'm nothing like who I was then either but that is another story for another long response.
What i said about the aspirins is true though, having a missus is both brilliant and terrible. Brilliant because you're not alone, terrible when you're sat on a train and there's a perfect 10 sat opposite you, and you're trying to eye her up on the sly, and you get caught by your girlfriend, who does that exasperated sigh that only women in relationships can manage.
I really can't respond to you with much mate, I really can't. I'm just going to have to learn by myself. Everyone's experience is different. I'm just in a stage of my life where I don't know what the **** I'm going to do with myself really.
