Best wishes for a speedy recovery for her. Also, although she is your priority, and rightly so, please make sure you look after yourself.
My wife is still in hospital and they still dont know where her infection is coming from and they are doing tests for potential blood clot in her right leg. She couldn't bear any weight on it after using a commode today and they had to use a hoist to get her back into bed, just as I was arriving this afternoon, after which she zonked out with the painkillers and antibiotics. Fortunately they stopped me going into the room until it was done.
I only say this as I have felt **** all day but reading your message puts it into perspective and made me realise I also need to look after myself.
Good luck FPDP