Self restrainment O/T

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Funky Dick said:
Well there's half your problem. Don't do anything about this chump now fella, recover, strengthen your wrist get your aggression channeled a bit then revisit this situation. That's my advice.
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That was my plan mate before today's events.
 
Billy Cattermole said:
Well there's a bit of mix of advice & opinions here.
I'm not saying I'm right but I believe in fighting fire with fire.
Can't go with this turn the other cheek, Ghandi type of bollocks.
If there's a problem then you nip it in the bud.
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I'm the same fella, but if Tees is as wound up as he sounds he could kick him half to death or more. He should give him slap and prove a point but can he trust himself to leave it at that? That's the big problem init.
 
Teessidemakem said:
No mate, haven't done nowt for 8 weeks cause of my wrist op, it's killing me. The gyms the only thing that keeps me calm so the last thing I need in my life at the moment is a wana be Burberry wearing smoggy wana be hard man giving it large when I've got my fecking kids sat on my knee!!
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Tees, how old is this twat?
 
Funky Dick said:
I'm the same fella, but if Tees is as wound up as he sounds he could kick him half to death or more. He should give him slap and prove a point but can he trust himself to leave it at that? That's the big problem init.
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Plus to me it sounds as if the guy is just a loud mouth, who snitched at the first sign of actual physical confrontation. He'd be the first to go to the police and claim assault. Problem then is he could get jail time or a black mark next to his name for the rest of his life making you almost unemployable. Is some loud mouthed gobshite really worth that sort of hassle?
 
Lucaaas said:
Plus to me it sounds as if the guy is just a loud mouth, who snitched at the first sign of actual physical confrontation. He'd be the first to go to the police and claim assault. Problem then is he could get jail time or a black mark next to his name for the rest of his life making you almost unemployable. Is some loud mouthed gobshite really worth that sort of hassle?
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This. Completely this.
 
Also ask yourself what's the best possible and worst possible outcomes.

Which one outweighs the other?
 
I've had aggressive thoughts and even dreams about him since November. That was even before today when I tried to keep a low profile with my kids on board and he pushed his luck again knowing they was no way I could retaliate.
I'm sorry lads, I smell blood!
 
Lucaaas said:
Plus to me it sounds as if the guy is just a loud mouth, who snitched at the first sign of actual physical confrontation. He'd be the first to go to the police and claim assault. Problem then is he could get jail time or a black mark next to his name for the rest of his life making you almost unemployable. Is some loud mouthed gobshite really worth that sort of hassle?
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He's meant to be ex hooligan though. I know loads of Darlo Casuals and they wouldn't go to the police for any reason. He might blab to mates and family but not the police.

I'd bitch slap him, in private and see what see does. Slaps don't leave lasting marks, I'd humiliate the little scroat one on one with nobody about. But i'm quite calculated.
 
Funky Dick said:
I'm the same fella, but if Tees is as wound up as he sounds he could kick him half to death or more. He should give him slap and prove a point but can he trust himself to leave it at that? That's the big problem init.
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Aye, good point there like, I've lost it myself on more than one occasion.
I'm only little but a bad tempered ****er.
I've cracked before in pubs with blokes taking the piss out of my size.
It was my way of proving I was a man.
My ex wife ended up refusing to go for a drink with me.
I've done some awful stuff in my past, maybe I'm not the best person to give Tees advice on this.
 
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Billy Cattermole said:
Aye, good point there like, I've lost it myself on more than one occasion.
I'm only little but a bad tempered ****er.
I've cracked before in pubs with blokes taking the piss out of my size.
It was my way of proving I was a man.
My ex wife ended up refusing to go for a drink with me.
I've done some awful stuff in my past, maybe I'm not the best person to give Tees advice on this.
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See I'm calculated, I'd be confident of keeping my cool with timed aggression. Only ever lost it once. Broke a Bouncers cheek bone, smashed my thumb socket, got a criminal record and lost my career in one foul swoop. Mind you, in the real world I would have lost it big time with Stu, ashamed to admit it.
 
Billy Cattermole said:
Aye, good point there like, I've lost it myself on more than one occasion.
I'm only little but a bad tempered ****er.
I've cracked before in pubs with blokes taking the piss out of my size.
It was my way of proving I was a man.
My ex wife ended up refusing to go for a drink with me.
I've done some awful stuff in my past, maybe I'm not the best person to give Tees advice on this.
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I love you mate, I can genuine say that cause I've met you.
I had a rough ride with bulliies throughout my life and I can honestly say apart from my wrist I've never felt so mentally and physically good. Downside my past sometimes haunts me in certain situations and it's like a red rag to a bull if I think anyone's trying to belittle me!
 
Billy Cattermole said:
Hmm, a bit younger than me but not much.
I know the Frontline from the 80's.
Can't imagine any of the old boys having any respect for him when he's going bitching to his woman.
Show the **** up for what he is - a tosser.
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Hes got 2 bigger brothers that got him into the footy violence. He can involve them if he likes I don't care. His claim to fame is a pic in "The Bricks",.book.
 
Teessidemakem said:
I love you mate, I can genuine say that cause I've met you.
I had a rough ride with bulliies throughout my life and I can honestly say apart from my wrist I've never felt so mentally and physically good. Downside my past sometimes haunts me in certain situations and it's like a red rag to a bull if I think anyone's trying to belittle me!
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Sorry that was meant for bri lol, love to meet you too sometime Billy
 
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