Regardles of the amount of time you have spent in Africa, your original statement is a nonsense and you know it. I and millions of other black males are proof of this.
For those who are interested,let me give you a run down on a typical day in African compounds of my acquaintance,i.e.,having lived in extensively,and visited daily.
Females rise early,and start their chores,viz,brooming the compound,cleaning communal areas,etc.
Females will prepare breakfast,after having collected water from the nearest well,or outside tap.
Females will ensure that water for washing is provided to the males,who are still in their beds.
Female will go to the market and purchase meat,fish,vegatebles for lunch.
Females will prepare lunch,and cook it.
Females are doing washing of clothes.
Females will iron clothes from previous days wash.
Whilst all the above are being carried out,the males who are awake,will have a bath,using water brought by females.
The males will then sit around in their clean,freshly ironed clothes,have male friends visit,drink tea,and listen to music,and smoke a spliff or two.
Females then serve lunch and males eat.
If a male wants drinking water,he tells a female to fetch it for him,even if he is sitting next to a tap.
Females clear away the mess left by males whilst eating.
Females then clean all pots,pans,cooking utensils,etc.
Females are then able to take a bath and change into walking out clothes.
In the afternoon,males sit around exhausted after the effort of having to actually chew their own food.
As the afternoon wears on the males will go out,play football in the street,or go to the beach for a full scale game,if the tide is out.
Some males will have been on the beach exercising for a large part of the day.
In the evening the males will wander around,visit friends,chase girls,lay as many as possible,and generally have a good time.
I could go on,but anyone who has taken the time to read the above will doubtless have formed an opinion of the roles of black males and black females.
To summarise,women do all the work and males just play.
It's cultural behaviour,and clearly indicates that men are treated in a very different way to women,and as a consequence, they are brought up to regard women as their slaves.
Now clearly,not every compound functions completely as above,but in general terms,what I have written is based on my considerable experience.
In a well to do compound,maids will be employed to carry out some of the female chores.
There's a lot more I could say,but,hey,that would take me too long.
So,as to my original statement being nonsense,I refute that, and attest to the above as vindication of same.
I don't know "millions" of black males,but I know enough.