The left are all about an imagined culture they want to be. The right are about an identity that was despite the world moving on. I am in between there

Yes the 80s was grim. I grew up through it. It was tough but my parents apparently are now privileged because they scraped through that focusing on buying and paying for a house! Most crying now about poverty in the UK would definitely not have survived the 80s! and while my Dad had a good solid government job for 41 years! (benefits agency) back then state jobs were well behind in the payscale than private sector and single income was hard to pay for your house and bring up your family with no tax credits, no free childcare and multiple other stuff that the government now gives to (qualifying) families. Back then it was have kids, you pay for them and wifey stays at home to look after them.
We agree here too. So why do Labour/"the left" want to say a quarter of the population is in poverty (including me) when they are not?
Wholesale parity (not equality) to "balance things to "non whites" is causing problems for the whites. Qutie possibly because the non white's parents quite often have even more traditional conservative values than their white counterparts and are much more likely to invest aspiration and hard work values into their young than their white counterparts.
If it were about equality and not parity, and they 100% focused on people and not "this section of people" I would 100% give that my support.....but they don't.
So the pensioners lived in the very best times.........that in your first paragraph you said were a horrible time. Hmmm. I agree the world is rebalancing but that is not what the left want to do or do do. They want to shove the whole thing to the other end without progressing at a pace that brings others with them. "white male orthodoxy" was being challenged decades ago. The 90s "modern man" for example. No problem with chauvinism being called out i it is actually chauvanism.
Equally I don't think anyone really has anything against equal pay............but for equal jobs. The whole "asda" ruling where till workers got equalised with warehouse work is just wrong because they are different jobs and as someone who has worked in manual work a lot jobs that are harder physically are often avoided by people, hence market rate ends up paying those jobs more. Women should be free to do those warehouse jobs if they desire and thus earn the "premium" caused by a market rate. If we are talking any job across the board. women should be paid equal rate as the men for the same job. I agree
I also think that most (even reform voters) want policing to be the same no matter your skin pigment or religion or standing in the world. This is not the "horrible 80s" that you blank out when saying today's pensioners had it all so good

Believe it or not we have progressed from those days no matter how people want to present anything right wing (or more accurately not mirroring the current left wing) as being 80s skinhead NF types.