Oh, I thought we were talking about the individuals themselves getting abuse, not about who else knew about it. My mistake.
Bit arrogant and sort sighted that mate.
Someone's sorts your mail and no one else sees it = hidden away and easier to ignore (note, I didn't say easy)
Modern day it's on social media resulting in it being in the papers and on tv/radio. You could choose to ignore these outlets but everyone you know sees them and it is therefore unavoidable.


