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Off Topic How do you handle terminal news?

Discussion in 'Sunderland' started by C19RK73, Jun 22, 2022.

  1. LAMackem

    LAMackem Well-Known Member

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    So sad to read this and my heart goes out to you and your family......god bless.
     
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  2. MrRAWhite

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    My thoughts are with you mate.
     
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  3. 123Daveyboy

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    My wife died from alzheimers 2018, no one or nothing can prepare you for what is to come. To watch the person you have loved for 35 year disappear month by month week by week day by day hour by hour is the worst thing that will happen in your life. To have them say to you " i want to die, will you help me " is heartbreaking. for them to be unable to do something one day that they could do the previous day is gut wrenching. After more than 4 year it still hurts more than anything that has happened in my life.
     
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    rooch 3 Well-Known Member

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    So sorry mate, preying I never have to go through it.
     
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  5. Snaggey

    Snaggey Well-Known Member

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    Bloody hell mate, so sorry to hear that.
    I feel bad giving you a like...but you know what I mean by it.
    I can't begin to think what you went through.
     
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  6. Montysoptician

    Montysoptician Well-Known Member

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    I can't even imagine what you went through, I hope the passing of time has somehow dulled your pain
     
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  7. Reggie the Cheddar

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    Condolences mate x
     
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  8. Best uncapped Keeper

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    Sorry to hear this, thoughts are with you and yours.
     
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  9. Bob the Mackem

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    Yesterday we said goodbye to uncle Pat (Ernie Byron) a good a sendoff as you could ask for, so keep strong for ALL your family mate.
     
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  10. RTB

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    Sad news mate, it's a tough time and I've been through it myself.
    Have a good cry and remember the good times that you had with her, I'm not religious but I hope she's reunited with grandpops
    RIP <rose>
     
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  11. C19RK73

    C19RK73 Red & White army!

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    Some cracking testament from you all, emphasises the importance of Love.
    For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
    John 3:16 NIV
    https://john.bible/john-3-16

    Thoughts and prayers with you all.
     
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  13. ab65

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    Sorry for the late response mate. Just seen this now.
    Strength to you and your family.
     
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  14. ab65

    ab65 Well-Known Member

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    That’s dreadful mate.
    Lost my Mam back in 2017 to a combination of dementia and cancer when she was in her 70’s. She had good and bad days in the last few months but to lose your wife to that disease would have been very tough to handle for you both.
    Hope that you are able to find some peace and enjoy the memories of the good times.
     
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  15. Teessidemackem

    Teessidemackem Well-Known Member

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    Sorry to hear this news. My deepest condolences go out to you.
     
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  16. Nordic

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    Blimey , some sad news on here of late:: CR19, Ozzy, Vinkle - my thoughts and best wishes to you all.
     
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