Sorry for the late reply mate,i've been there myself ,the pain does fade but never forgotten ,the more the kids go to the top of your thoughts the easier the pain becomes, its the only advice i can give that and my heart goes out to you
Wifes on the way to the hospital now to make(if that's what you call it) the palliative decision. It means she can come home at the end of the week and die with dignity surrounded by her cats who she loves and have more than 2 visitors a day. Timeframe we've been given is 2-3 weeks vs 1-2 days if they try chemo again. Time for a bit of day drinking i think.
That's tough mate, all I can say is that I'm thinking about you. You're in my prayers if that means anything to you.
That's tough mate, I've been there myself. All I can say is that you and your family are in my thoughts and look after yourself and each other
Can’t even begin to imagine what you are going through, but all my love is with you and your wife mate.
That’s just awful . I hope your mother in law is comfortable and doesn’t suffer. At least she will have family around her which I’m sure will be a comfort to her. Thoughts are with you and your family.
Awful mate. Really awful. Just enjoy the time you have left with her and remember all the best bits. All about her now, what is best for her, and what she wants. God Bless you all, I've been there a bit, and the clouds lift in the end, even though life is never the same.
Truly awful news mate… I cannot even begin to know what you and your family going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this terrible time
It's a very difficult time for you all Ozzy, my parents were taken relatively quickly with cancer but I went through a very similar situation with my wife's mother, my thoughts and prayers are with you, take care
Brilliant, you have been through the mill but came out the other side, so pleased for you and your family, take care
Ty and everyone for the good wishes The Judge sat in the courtroom removed the black cap and said get on with life ( that’s how it felt anyway)
Everything that could be said to help you cope with your sorrow has already been said, all i can add is every supporter on here is right behind you in your grief, Stiff upper lip mate she wont want to see you devastated.
I agree but she is the one making the call she needs more support Can you imagine you make the decision if someone should live. i could not do it
agreed and when the time comes and Ozzy needs us i will be here for him a pm and ill even chat with him as long as he wants
Mate, heartfelt condolences. No-one ever knows what to say at a time like this. I hope you and yours can be there for one another, help each other. Other than that, sorry for your loss,mate.
Ahh, man. So sorry for your loss mate, sending sincerest condolences to you and your family. R.I.P. to your Mam.
My mother had a tumor near her gall bladder 2003, i looked for wonder cure tablets, faith healers anything to help her, it is terrible yet pnumonia took her. My dad had a urine infection 2018 we did not know though, although he was seeing things etc, a warning is if you spot that get him/her straight to hospital don't delay, maddening thing was he had a check up about a year and a half before but no follow up, cranberry juice prevents that by the way that's what they say.