The forgotten England captain: Dave Watson won 65 caps for his country but has been let down by the PFA since his dementia diagnosis. Here, loving wife Penny reveals his heartbreaking story
So it was with much sadness that supporters took the announcement in February that this combative defender was now fighting a battle he cannot win. Last week, following confirmation of Sir Bobby Charlton's diagnosis, Penny posted an update on Dave's Facebook page, detailing what little help the Watson family had received since going public. That prompted criticism of the PFA. The next day, Penny's phone rang. It was Gordon Taylor.
Penny is polite and does not want to divulge what was said. But she did tell the PFA supremo what they should be doing.
'Dave's best friend in football is Colin Bell,' says Penny. 'The two of them, when they get together, are like two old women, moaning about this, that, the other, the modern game and all that.
'Whenever Dave talks to anybody from that era, they have a moan, but they also reminisce. That's important. It keeps the brain going. I suggested maybe having events, even somewhere like St George's Park, for these guys to go there and get together. The carers, too.
'Why can't the PFA get something together, where they're among like-minded people, can reminisce and spend their last days there? I don't mean when it's really bad, when they don't have a clue where they are. But when they can still take some enjoyment out of life.
'Even if it's just taking them to matches. I want to keep the stimulation going. They should already have care packages of some kind, family liaison officers for different areas.' Penny pauses. 'I'm sorry, I'm getting a bit upset. He just needs help.'
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Penny has provided the PFA with evidence of when Dave hurt his during his playing career, including the above shot which shows him covered in blood
Dave is one of five brothers, three of whom played football to varying levels. Peter and Tony, who played professionally and semi-professionally, have departed this world, both after they were diagnosed with neurodegenerative diseases. The other two brothers, and three sisters, have never had brain disease.
Lady Norma Charlton announced last week that her 1966 hero husband, Sir Bobby, had dementia — news which shook football and followed the death of Nobby Stiles.
Penny wants any other families considering going public to not be afraid to do so. 'It's almost like it's a dirty secret,' she says. 'They shouldn't feel ashamed.
'This is maybe where the pride thing comes into it. Once you've decided to make it public, accepted it and embraced it, then people should be helping.
'This is not just for Dave. It's for those down the ladder, too. We didn't make millions from football and we don't live in a mansion.
'But what about the other guys, who didn't even have what we had? What happens with them?'