I began posting on one of Andy's other threads, regarding the age of the for and against votes, but this post has drifted so put it here. It is the only post i shall make on the subject.
i always find it odd that it is perfectly acceptable for everyone to shout 'racist' and 'xenophobe' but being ageist doesn't exist. Consider perhaps that those people over 50 may a. live a long time with the decision that has been made, it's not the right of the young to live for the next 20 years or so, and b. that this is far more about the future and safety of our children and our children's children, and that 'older' people (who to me are just people, just like the whole class debate has no swing with me either) have thought long and hard about this decision and have come to the conclusion that it's best for the future of the country. It has sickened me over the last 24 hours the amount of anti anyone over 50 posts i've seen, the vitriol from younger people, the fear of other young people who voted 'leave' and are frightened to admit it. The ugly side of humanity has come out over the last 24 hours, some of the remain people, from what i have seen, have been insulting, making it personal and taking it far enough to ruin friendships and relationships with families. Divisive doesn't seem to cover it. I am sure, as the vote was expected by journalists and politicians alike, to go the other way, the Brixiteers would have taken it on the chin and got on with it. So sad that so many 'remainers' have been so full of bitterness since the declaration.
I am pleased the vote went as it did. Yes, there are uncertain times ahead, but the certainty of what was to come within the EU was enough to sway me. I do not gloat, in fact, since the decision was announced i have barely posted. I have withstood the anger of my children and will heal those rifts in time, and have put up with the look of disgust from many of my friends and the bitterness on their timelines. Most of those are thinking purely about themselves and how this affects them. I have been considering the bigger picture. I am sad that it has highlighted such division in the country, but that division has been there for a long time and it is finally time for politicians to realise that they have failed miserably in making all people feel valued and heard. If this vote does nothing else, it will wake the politicians from their comfy slumbers, and make them think about the people of the country and not just their own agendas.
I'm sorry that there are people on this thread that are hurting and worried. Even Brixiteers are unsure of what is to come, since none of us have a crystal ball. But we need to remember that we live in a democracy, the vote was taken and 'leave' won. Now it's time to respect that decision, and the people who voted for it, as well as those that didn't, and start to get this country back on it's feet and make it a place to be proud of.