In reality though mate, the only way of achieving the long term stability you (we) crave is to remain in the Premiership. I don't think we'll get relegated, but I'm not going to say that on current form & performances it's not a possibility because the truth of it is that there is a chance we could go down.
With regards to wanting the team to play a certain way, I believe all fans want that and that's my main gripe at the moment. Allardyce got lambasted by us fans for his shoddy football, he was hounded out of his job by us if truth be told, yet Pardew's style of football is no different and probably less effective if we're honest.
I don't actually think MA & DL are even remotely considering dismissing Pardew either, which in a way does render conversations such as these a bit pointless. As you've said he works well with the board, Carr etc, which is a good thing on the whole, but does have it's drawbacks in that sometimes I think he addresses the fans via the press with one arm tied behind his back so to speak. On occasions, such as the summer window he was let down by MA & DL, instead of confirming this to the media he "bigged up" the fact that we hadn't lost any players and labelled the window a success. However now things aren't looking too rosy, he's now saying we need more players in January, it comes across as a bit weak for me and undermines Pardew a bit.