tash you should turn your insecurity into satirical cockiness. if u have a crooked nose claim it to be the sexiest damn nose in the world. we are not all born perfect like me (example) it adds humour and confidence to yourself. let your personality shine you will find a lot of girls would look past physical traits and if they dont then mate they really ain't worth the effort be yourself but dont be too restricted and stubborn. if ur interested in a girl talk to her as you would just to a normal person and dont go into it thinking you are going to end up with her being your girlfriend. get on talking terms with someone, ask to just hang out.. a tip is to do something social like play pool.. never a movie pick something where you can talk, coffee meets are good too. when you are comfortable hanging out go for lunch.. nothing fancy just maybe a social place that isn't formal.. if all goes well mate you should kinda know where a girl stands with you.. if it goes really well and she enjoys it suggest dinner again but choose something with a little romance and a bit more formal but still not too formal as you need to have fun.. its cliche but Italian is perfect. if this goes well now you gotta cook for her mate.. girls dig that any girl who says otherwise if a ****ing liar, lol
I've only experienced the negative side of this, when someone has said something and I've replied with 'rep' or 'this'.
You're not seeing what I mean here, I'm not saying that you are closed minded at all. I'm saying that all that is needed is for you to get interested in the things a girl likes and share that enjoyment with her. You then came back with 'I wouldn't change who I was for anybody' and I'm now saying that you don't have to change, simply broaden what you are interested in to include what she likes. Showing a willingness to open yourself to the possibility of change is also a sign of an open minded person too .
I know, i gave up my seat on the train for a pregnant woman yesterday, i would never have done that before.
I don't have this issue, i type like i talk, that's why my sentences have so many commas, and you'll catch me putting ummm's and aaaahh's in my sentences.
But.. ffs... It's not like I go around calling myself ugly in real life, I am confident and I can flirt with the right woman, although it's very rate, I'm not insecure and I think I've just put another false image of myself in peoples heads, I knew I shouldn't have started this whole thing off again, all It does is get people to think I'm something I'm not. God man I'm so frustrated at the moment.
After being on here I browsed facebook for a bit. Now I have a certain hatred for all of my "friends".
Facebook is a lot like a computer game. The aim is to collect as many items called 'friends' as you can. Bonus points for getting as many obscure people as possible and pretend that you care when it's their birthday so when yours comes round you get more Happy Birthday messages than anybody else on your list, from people none of whom know each other making you look popular as hell to as many people as possible.
