Didn't watch the match but was following updates on SKY & the BBC. Sue Smith covering our match said it was a red card and Mike Dean initially agreed so I went with their opinion, ranting about it. Then I got messages saying it was very harsh. Watching a video later online of the decision and it does look very, very soft. By the letter of the law it probably is a red card but it's not intentional and more a shirt pull where a couple (at most) of his dreads are caught by accident. It's not as though he's grabbed a handful of his hair and yanked it, the shirt pull was more obvious. Where's the common sense? A genuine sneaky hair pull, yeah that I'll go with, but to unintentionally catch someone's hair?
I'm angry at Ballard for doing it, it's a stupid thing to do which ran the risk of allowing a **** decision to be made and we paid the price for it. That said it's not deliberate, not very obvious and very very soft. Without that red card we win that game comfortably. I'm happy that we came away with a point, playing for 70 minutes down to 10 men is very, very hard no matter how poor the opponents are. It's physically and mentally tiring, especially in the later stages.
VAR really isn't fit for purpose. I'm not against it in principle, if it's used correctly it is an aid and can stop controversial incidents, like in the play off final. But it's not being used properly. We're seeing goals chalked off when someones knee is half an inch offside, fouls being awarded for one team where more blatant ones for the opponents are ignored. There's almost no consistency in game let alone between different games. And I think it's making referees worse. They're avoiding making some decisions and hoping VAR will bail them out. But you've got **** refs on VAR making **** VAR decisions. We've been on the rough end of a few bad VAR decisions this season, it feels like most have come since Christmas. Liverpool at home where we should have had a penalty be half time, Bournemouth down there, Fulham was one of the worst referee performances I've ever seen capped by the fact that dirty twat Jimenez should have been sent off for persistent fouling before half time scoring twice for them in the second half. I do wonder is this pay back because of the criticism Brobbey got from some quarters against Spurs? "You might have got away with one there, so we'll even it up next chance we get, even if it's wrong".
Edit. I don't know what Mike Dean said after he initially said it was a red because my mate phoned me ranting about it, so I'd muted the tv. If he's come out and critisised it later as reported he must have changed his mind pretty quickly.