Drink is the biggest hypocrite there is ... ... a depressant that makes you happy while it's in your hand.
Nightmare mate, I feel your pain. I broke up with my ex wife/boys mam in 2016 and not living with my boys permanently really effected me and it still does now to this day. I'd have done anything to have a life living with them permanently and kissing them goodnight every single night. It's really hard,and a massive head feck not being able to do it.
That's hard mate, I sympathise deeply. No one ever said life was supposed to be fair ... ... not that it helps when it's not.
Just tell them every day how much you love them. Also don't make the same mistake my sister made, by trying to buy their love by showering them with money and gifts, it back fired on her.
No need for that mate. I practically bought them up the first 4 years of their life which is the main reason me and their mam split up. Our bond goes well beyond me having to spend money on them
@Tees... I've always said that to give those you love the most you need to first be happy in yourself. There's all sorts of weird ones out there that like KFC smell good and look good but make you feel like crap the next day. Be happy that you're a good dad and your boys love you, the rest is all just icing which isn't all that good for you anyway Keep you chin up mate because good things do happen to good people.
How you doing now mate? I hope you get the chance to have your boys plenty over the next couple of weeks.
Chin up mate. Things will get better, easy for me to say but I know what you’re feeling and going through.
It's a difficult time of year mate, very emotional. No consolidation probably but I'm thinking about you and your lads.
I'll be happy when my lads get dropped off tomorrow and then I give them back in the evening and wake up alone Xmas day whilst my lads are in another house experiencing an Xmas day without me and they'll be with their mam and stepdad. Its mentally hard to take for me to take I'm sorry
Try to not let it eat you up, it's easy for us to offer advice and support, but what your going through must be sickening. Keep your chin up and just keep going for their sake. Merry Xmas mate.
