Wow that’s the most sensible post you have made for a long time. Your chilling in your old age buddy.I don't think there's anything wrong with him holding out for the move he wanted. I think fans take things too personally when this happens.
He probably was in two minds and even indicated he'd come, but people change their minds and people put themselves first when making their biggest decisions.
He might live to regret it or he might not, but I really don't think he's done anything wrong. It just is what it is.