Again, that is absolutely heartbreaking. I would say though, and I speak as someone with a very close relative in a care home with dementia, that if it does come to a choice of who gets ventilators and hospital treatment then I would prefer it to go to someone younger and fitter. I don't say that lightly or coldly. I will be heartbroken if my relative gets infected and dies without seeing her again, especially knowing she doesn't understand why we are not there with her. One of the main reasons I think that is because I know she would have said exactly the same when she still had all of her faculties. It shouldn't be this way, but this is beyond anything the NHS and our social care system was designed to cope with. I'm a huge critic of the lack of funding of social care, especially in the council areas that have been hit by the biggest funding cuts, but I suspect that even without those cuts this would still have stretched things to the point where these decisions were having to be made.