Totally agree!!
I'd never ever give kids a hard time for joining any branch of the armed forces.
My problem's always with the suits who send them into harms way!
It's the Army...harm's way is a call away surely?
Totally agree!!
I'd never ever give kids a hard time for joining any branch of the armed forces.
My problem's always with the suits who send them into harms way!
The army is taking a bit of a bashing here. I really don't know anybody who hasn't come out a better person for being in there. If you want your son to turn into a man quickly and be able to fend for himself for the rest of his life. Put him in there.
My daughter is seriously considering signing up and I'm encouraging her to do it.
I think you're getting it wrong here. Your average squaddie is a good decent, brave person. They're following orders.I give you that bellend from Amsterdam
Come on Saf...there are other ways to get the young un to be an upright individual. Sending them to the forces just gives them a lust for power tripping it seems. Plus oppressing innocents for the Bankers of the world? Your kid is yours to love not theirs to kill.
It was a different world the and the world had a job to do to defeat an evil murdering regime.I think you're getting it wrong here. Your average squaddie is a good decent, brave person. They're following orders.
Like has been said, it's the suits that are the problem, not the soldiers. Where do you think we'd be now without our armed forces in the 1940's?
I think you're getting it wrong here. Your average squaddie is a good decent, brave person. They're following orders.
Like has been said, it's the suits that are the problem, not the soldiers. Where do you think we'd be now without our armed forces in the 1940's?
It's a complicated issue, we need people who are willing to fight for their country if called upon, we need the powers that be too respect that the decisions they make risk the lives of those people.
People who sign up will always have my respect and I won't ever question their politics. Let a man go find himself and hopefully come home safe a better person.
Okay so should we not be prepared for that happening again, or do we just randomly call up people with no training if a war kicks off?It was a different world the and the world had a job to do to defeat an evil murdering regime.
You get soldiers who suffer all-sorts of mental and physical trauma...but are left to deal with it...have a **** quality of life...which white collar gives a ****? They don't care your kid just earned them a multi million pound contract for re building the damn place they destroyed in the first place.
Okay so should we not be prepared for that happening again, or do we just randomly call up people with no training if a war kicks off?
Like I said it's complicated and a person has to go into it of his own choice with eyes open. There's a million what ifs. I steered my oldest away from it for the same reasons you state. Those who go have my respect.and what if in this process this individual killed another innocent due to following orders? Is he forgiven for being a brave soldier who had the balls to sign up? Just because the bloodshed is not on our door steps does not mean an innocent life did not get taken. My son is worth more than a whole country to me...**** the bigger picture..I'd rather a million soldiers die than my boy and I'm sure the mother in Iraq who lost her innocent child feels the same....she just can't do **** all about it.
My friend was in the first Gulf war in the tank regiment. He now has full blown PTSD from his experiences in that war. He was a gunner in the tank and followed his orders to shell Iraqi positions. He told me about what he saw after his tank advanced into enemy lines, the bits of bodies strewn around the desert. Young men blown to pieces whilst trying to retreat. He also lost two of his best mates to 'friendly fire' and came back a broken man.
Plenty of times I've had to go round to his house at 3am to stop him from hanging himself after he's been on a drinking binge. The Army did **** all for him when he left, they discharged him into the care of his GP, well meaning, but ultimately fruitless in trying to support his needs. Eventually my mate turned his life around when we were in California together years ago and we met up with a charity who support veterans through surfing, my mate set something similar up here called Surf action, who to this day still support Vets to get them in the Ocean and to link them in with support for PTSD. The services are better today, but there's still a long way to go. Ultimately the best thing to do is not send young men into war.
Like I said it's complicated and a person has to go into it of his own choice with eyes open. There's a million what ifs. I steered my oldest away from it for the same reasons you state. Those who go have my respect.
Your first sentence is difficult and I would hope that doesn't happen to anyone I would rather we have no reason for an army at all but that isn't the case.
I'm agreeing with loads of what you say. I know wars are wrong, I just can't portion any blame on a soldier following orders. A rogue soldier, now that's a different matter.I agree people should be trained up...I'd train up so I can protect my family and our country...but so many wars are wrong and we only enter them when there is a material gain for us....never for the good of humanity. That's too much of a risk to take for me.
My best mate lost his dad in the Northern Ireland troubles/war. He now leads a national charity that fights for and look after soldiers with PTSD.My friend was in the first Gulf war in the tank regiment. He now has full blown PTSD from his experiences in that war. He was a gunner in the tank and followed his orders to shell Iraqi positions. He told me about what he saw after his tank advanced into enemy lines, the bits of bodies strewn around the desert. Young men blown to pieces whilst trying to retreat. He also lost two of his best mates to 'friendly fire' and came back a broken man.
Plenty of times I've had to go round to his house at 3am to stop him from hanging himself after he's been on a drinking binge. The Army did **** all for him when he left, they discharged him into the care of his GP, well meaning, but ultimately fruitless in trying to support his needs. Eventually my mate turned his life around when we were in California together years ago and we met up with a charity who support veterans through surfing, my mate set something similar up here called Surf action, who to this day still support Vets to get them in the Ocean and to link them in with support for PTSD. The services are better today, but there's still a long way to go. Ultimately the best thing to do is not send young men into war.
Mate I worked in community safety and the amounts of homeless, drug/alcohol addicted, criminal ex soldiers you see you wouldn't believe
I don't want to start a riot but the h4h and poppy debates annoy the **** out of me since I worked in this field
CEO of British legion is on about £150k from the money raised but if a dilduer and his family earn £10,001 its over the £10k threshold so entitled to **** all (figs may be different now)
That's before you consider why a soldier maimed defending his country needs a charity to help him rather than the country he went to war for
Not trying to offend anyone here just feel strongly about it.
My best mate lost his dad in the Northern Ireland troubles/war. He now leads a national charity that fights for and look after soldiers with PTSD.
Send him this way if you want.

I'm agreeing with loads of what you say. I know wars are wrong, I just can't portion any blame on a soldier following orders. A rogue soldier, now that's a different matter.
There are quite a few of those around now, too.It was a different world the and the world had a job to do to defeat an evil murdering regime.