Your reality and that of others is rather different. Cameron took a huge risk with the future of the country simply to try and hold a party together that had been split for years. That gamble failed, so he walked away from it. Any politician within the Tory ranks who could see where it was going to lead would have said, thanks but no thanks, the circle cannot be squared without doing enormous damage to the country. Step forward the current PM who believes that only what she wants is the right thing to do, and doesn't listen to anyone else. She had already shown up her skills in the Home Office where she allowed immigration from outside the EU to continue at a pace, but kept quiet when the right wing papers, that had their own agenda, blamed the rise as a problem with the EU.
Having somehow found herself in No.10 she didn't have a plan, so to try and keep both of the warring factions apart produced an evenly balanced cabinet. Despite not having a plan she still triggered article 50, not the sort of thing to do if you don't know what you are aiming at. That cabinet could not agree within, and when she did finally come up with a plan the splits within became visible to all. So did she really grasp the nettle and appoint replacements that could have moved the debate in one direction or the other? No, she just kept appointing replacements to keep her balance, and to help kick the problem further down the road called an election. As the voters removed her majority she now only had one option if she wanted to stay in power, buy some votes, knowing that it could only be a temporary fix. That fix has now failed.
Those who left government have been asked time and time again to produce their plan, yet never do so. Yesterday one of them stood up in Parliament and said that he had a plan. We could take that cherry from that cake, and another one from a different cake and have a feast. It totally ignored the fact that the cakes do not belong to him. While the infighting continued within the Tory party, nothing had changed you will note, the opposition didn't need to do a lot except watch as members continued to take lumps out of each other.
So where has this period of non-government led us to today. A minister said that we had a good month on trade last February, so that proved the economy was going along nicely, whereas daily you read that £billions are being moved abroad because no one knows what is happening. Companies are spending millions just preparing for the worst instead of investing to produce growth, something that will not improve under any forecast if we leave our largest market. You can see why Fox has suddenly become so flexible. Go into a nice long transition period and he will not have to make good on his promises to have dozens of trade deals lined up to come into effect on 1st April next year. The country is now far worse than it was before Cameron took his risk both economically and socially. Some still believe in the sunny uplands of being a country that has actually voted to make itself worse off, something that no other country has ever voted for before.