As has been stated, it's mainly pantomime villain stuff. No need to let it go, it's quite fun having someone play that part. Less of the moralising chaps, if we want to put him on whatever the opposite of a pedestal is, just let us. If you don't want to join in, that's fine, but please don't stop us having our fun!
Imagine Peter Pan without Hook.
Agree with you, LTL. If I felt even remotely that the emotion I felt towards TB was making me feel embittered and smaller as a person I'd give it up in a heartbeat. Instead, I'm having a little bit of fun allowing myself to be irresponsible. I could give it up, but I've chosen not to. Instead, I'm exploring what it feels like to be a minor ****bag.
And if that's the sum total of my irresponsibility towards football players then I think I can live with myself. There's far worse things that people do to each other every day.

Some things are best left unsaid.