That's possibly why we're on the different sides of the VAR debate and why we may never agree*.
For me, I'm not robbed of that part of the game. As I say, I still get that rush of joy and elation. Seemingly I'm fortunate in that respect (which I didn't previously appreciate).
But yes, if I was someone who was sitting there, seeing Bertrand cross it for PEH to head home, and my first, immediate reaction was to think "oh, VAR review" whilst continuing to sit there, and then only three minutes is the goal confirmed, then absolutely the joy and elation wouldn't be there any longer. It would basically be a polite little applause, rather than a proper celebration. And yeah, that would be rubbish. Complete and utter rubbish.
As it is for me, that confirmation aspect of the VAR is basically just a new bolt-on (or a right kick in the teeth, if our goal is a disallowed!). Kind of a jokey, sarcastic, rub-it-in-the-face-of-the-opposition second celebration, without any real deep joy or feeling behind it. But with that first, natural, raw celebration of pure jubilation still having occurred.
*(That said, I do feel there are two completely different VAR argument. One is the above; the impact of VAR on people's feelings. The second is the
implementation of VAR; how and when it is used etc. We may never agree on the first. But on the second, who knows.)