Hi Col. I'll say one thing that you probably [well, almost certainly] won't like, and then hopefully something more conciliatory. I stand by my comment that it is somewhat reprehensible for those (it wasn't just you) who have strong views on Brexit to be entirely unwilling to engage on the topic of the Irish border, and to simply sweep this issue aside by claiming its 'above your pay grade'. Not only is this at the very crux of the whole Brexit issue, it's an issue which until 2002 was directly responsible for the deaths of individuals in Ireland and the UK. We've seen from other posters (predominantly QPRNUTS) how alive this serious issue still is, and so to be unwilling to really engage on it - beyond a skin deep argument for 'technology' which doesn't exist - is, to me, was utterly frustrating. I don't expect you to design the solution yourself, but to at least be able to point towards other workable solutions - from any interested body, be it Vote.Leave, the ERG, any think tank - and if you can't source those solutions anywhere, to be able recognise the inherent challenge, and have sensible dialogue about why that might, and what sensible next steps are. From my perspective, it felt like you were perfectly happy to throw out questions about sovereignty etc, but were entirely unwilling to engage on this very important topic.
I hope, however, that my very pointed (and possibly raving as you point out!) comments and questions on the topic played a small part in your reflections and entirely sensible new(?) point of view. [The ? in square brackets as I'm not sure if you were supportive of a soft Brexit before the weekend and don't want to assume].
Which brings me on to the point which is hopefully conciliatory. I entirely agree that a 'soft' Brexit is the most sensible way forwards for the country, although, of course, there is room to disagree about what a soft Brexit entails. Putting aside my personal view that Brexit is a significant mistake and the wrong solution to the real challenges which many people in the UK face, there are a few facts, as follows, which to my mind, can only be reconciled by a soft Brexit:
1. As leavers are happy and right to highlight, a democratic process took place and the vote was to leave. A second vote would solve nothing, almost certainly because leave would win again, and because I think that a population which already feels disengaged and disenfranchised would feel [potentially rightly] seriously angry, and look for solutions with the likes of UKIP
2. However, that vote was not for any specific 'type' of Brexit, and I don't buy the argument that leave = exiting the customs union etc. They are plenty of attributable quotes to leave leaders, arguing for a very close relationship, some even advocating for single market membership
3. Ireland border - as discussed ad nauseum. No need to say more!
4. Based on the available evidence, as others have posted, a hard Brexit would be economically disastrous, and damage the lives of a great many people, hurting the least well off the most
As such, I agree a soft Brexit is the only possible way forward, and I suspect is what we will end up with. It's not what I would choose if I was dictator for the day, but that's democracy.
My intense frustration on Thursday was with leavers who are knocking May's deal without recognising the multiple complex challenges which it tries to address [Ireland being high or top on that list]. I posted a long time ago on this thread about how Chequers may be looked back upon in the future as a very clever move - I still think that when analysing this from a 'realpolitik' perspective.
I don't particular enjoy it when debate gets personal, even online, so hope that the clear rationale above helps to underline that my frustration was nothing personal towards you, but was in regard to the dismissal of an important argument by some posters. Now that we are scarily aligned on what the sensible path forward is, hope we can carry on talking and perhaps even agree further in future!
PS - This is a long post and I've not proofed it as the little one needs a bath. Hope it all makes sense.
PPS - I know the 'can you read' etc really was silly and crossed the line. Heat of the moment - sorry.
Thanks for this.
We'll never agree as almost half the Country won't ever agree on this issue.
I have put forward arguments concerning the Irish border during this thread, but I can't be arsed to find them. I've also said that Ireland deserves to be treated as a special case concerning their border. I believe there are examples elsewhere in the World where friction-less borders seem to work between Nations.
I stand by my comment that I'm not qualified to offer a solution, but that I have every right to comment as it is connected to Brexit, which effects us all in the UK.
You put forward very reasoned arguments and I have certainly softened my stance somewhat during this process.
However, I have lived (IMO) in a very Euro sceptic Country all my adult life. Government after Government avoided having a referendum because they feared the outcome. That complete weasel Cameron finally took the plunge, mainly for selfish reasons and look what happened.
I feel that we have always been lied to by the ruling elite concerning the "common market". If it was only a "common market" then I wouldn't have a problem. It's the political side of the EU's aspirations that I'll never agree with. There is little doubt in my mind that those at the helm of the EU and Germany and France desire a United States Of Europe and that's something that this tired old patriot could never agree to. It's also now clear that an EU army is looking very likely, which imo is another step to a Federal State of Europe. I don't feel (and never have) European and I don't want to be part of that political project, which I think would be doomed to fail anyway.
That's always been the crux of the matter for me, not immigration, although there's certainly a debate to be had on how too much immigration has badly affected some areas of this Country. No, I just want my Country to be purely independent and not run by people in the EU.
Close trading links are sensible and I have no problem with this. I don't dislike foreigners and I have absolutely no truck with the far right Nationalists.
However, I don't like the closed shop EU where members can't make favourable trade deals with Nations outside their club. I find that undemocratic and protectionist. I also view the EU as a corrupt organisation who can never get their books signed off.
I think this whole thing has been handled terribly and firmly believe that Brexit could and should have been negotiated much, much better.
We've ended up with a deal that no one likes, although as I've said, I'd accept the withdrawal deal on the table if we could have the final say over when WE leave (although I fear I've only reached that conclusion because I'm so heartily sick to death of the whole bloody thing!!).
Reading this back through I realise that, as I've said before, we just go over and over the same old arguments.
I respect your views, but respectfully, I don't think we'll ever agree on this subject.