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Tash. said:
I'd like a gothic style woman, who's into the same stuff I'm into but not deadly miserable like the goth kids of south park talking about pain.

I'd like a woman who doesn't care about being the same as everyone other girl, ones that's complex and not afraid to express herself, even if she's a bit weird, I like that because it's not boring. Weird IMO is better than normal because normal = boring really.

In terms of looks, I'm not really shallow, but I can't say I'm not more attracted to girls in metal or gothic style clothing or ones that basically like the heavy metal style.

Like Angela Gossow, the lead singer of Arch Enemy...

...****s sake what am I doing, I know that this is going to be stored in your ****ing C drives and used to take the piss out of me in a few weeks time lol.
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Tash. said:
Mate i know what you're on about, but when he said "randomers", I thought he just mean random girls waiting for a metro's.

Of course I'd not want to wait too long, but I'd at least talk to her for a second to see if she's the sort that wouldn't be too shy or too miserable to do it.
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Tash. said:
Well obviously you don't need to learn anything about her after 7 years together, I just thought that's how people had a bit of fun together that's all. Oh well, I just couldn't imagine a relationship without a bit of flirting. Not saying your relationship is dull or anything, you must really be in love since you've been with her for 7 years, but I couldn't be with a girl that didn't flirt with me, there needs to be a bit of that.
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Bloody hell Tash, this is a minefield. I've drafted a personal add based on some of your comments:

Man (or similar) seeks fun-loving goth woman, who's different, potentially confrontational and weird, for a lengthy and serious relationship with lots and lots of flirting
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We can stick it in a local paper or a dating website and see what kind of response we get. :)
 
You'veBeenTiote'd said:
Undoubtedly!


Tash if you're looking for non depressed Gothic girls get yourself to Sonisphere this year. You'll meet all sorts.
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I could have gone to sonisphere but I had no one to go with.

The only friends I have, I rarely see, It's mainly just over xbox live that we communicate, and none of them are into metal.
 
Tash. said:
I could have gone to sonisphere but I had no one to go with.

The only friends I have, I rarely see, It's mainly just over xbox live that we communicate, and none of them are into metal.
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You should've said on here and we could've met you there or something! Anyway, there were loads of people there on their own. We met a few who we just took with us. If you're gonna socialise more and meet girls you'll need to find some other friends if your one's at the moment are like that. It's worth taking the jump and going to a few festivals or gigs on your own to meet some new people.

The metal crowd seem to be a friendly lot anyway so i'm sure you'll meet somebody!
 
AbsolutelyGlorious said:
Tempted to go on the ACoN thread and say Cisse looks like he's been injured.
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<laugh> You'll be strung up by your arsehole.

Tash. said:
I could have gone to sonisphere but I had no one to go with.

The only friends I have, I rarely see, It's mainly just over xbox live that we communicate, and none of them are into metal.
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Have you thought about Uni or something? Expensive as **** but a great place to meet people! Would improve the old job prospects somewhat! Wish I'd stuck at it, that's for sure.
 
You'veBeenTiote'd said:
You should've said on here and we could've met you there or something! Anyway, there were loads of people there on their own. We met a few who we just took with us. If you're gonna socialise more and meet girls you'll need to find some other friends if your one's at the moment are like that. It's worth taking the jump and going to a few festivals or gigs on your own to meet some new people.

The metal crowd seem to be a friendly lot anyway so i'm sure you'll meet somebody!
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I've been to plenty of gigs mate, I'm not socially inept, and quite a few people have told me to go socialise more. It really means **** all when people say that. It's not like I never go out.

I go to gigs by myself but I don't want to travel half way across the country to go to a festival by myself, I just don't want to.
 
biggeordiedave said:
<laugh> You'll be strung up by your arsehole.



Have you thought about Uni or something? Expensive as **** but a great place to meet people! Would improve the old job prospects somewhat! Wish I'd stuck at it, that's for sure.
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University is just a massive spin of the roulette mate. I'm not gonna be 8k a year for a degree that may not even get me a job.

I don't want to have debt on my shoulders.
 
Tash. said:
I've been to plenty of gigs mate, I'm not socially inept, and quite a few people have told me to go socialise more. It really means **** all when people say that. It's not like I never go out.

I go to gigs by myself but I don't want to travel half way across the country to go to a festival by myself, I just don't want to.
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I wouldn't either <laugh> Part of the fun of festivals is the people you go with! The blokes that go on their todd are normally 20 stone, 60 year old metallers wearing biker gear and covered head to toe in patches.
 
Tash. said:
I've been to plenty of gigs mate, I'm not socially inept, and quite a few people have told me to go socialise more. It really means **** all when people say that. It's not like I never go out.

I go to gigs by myself but I don't want to travel half way across the country to go to a festival by myself, I just don't want to.
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Alright, sorry if i misjudged what you'd said.

I suppose it's fair enough not wanting to travel that far.
 
Tash. said:
University is just a massive spin of the roulette mate. I'm not gonna be 8k a year for a degree that may not even get me a job.

I don't want to have debt on my shoulders.
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It isn't like normal debt though. You don't have demands coming through the door and it doesn't skint you for years. You won't have bailiffs coming after your Xbox. You pay it if and when you can.
 
What about drawing classes Tash? Learn a new skill, meet new people, and if you're lucky there'll be a naked lass there for you to draw. You could maybe take a few pics as well (so you can finish it off at home :bandit:) and stick them on Sexy Poll. Everyone's a winner.
 
Does anyone remember the thread about the hardest internet game in the world?!

We could all only get to about level 7...it was really strange and you had to like click random things and edit the web address thing...Any ideas.
 
AbsolutelyGlorious said:
What about drawing classes Tash? Learn a new skill, meet new people, and if you're lucky there'll be a naked lass there for you to draw. You could maybe take a few pics as well (so you can finish it off at home :bandit:) and stick them on Sexy Poll. Everyone's a winner.
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[NSFW]Life models are usually fat geriatrics, but we'll not tell him that.[/NSFW]

I actually know a life model. (Young, honestly <laugh>)
 
biggeordiedave said:
It isn't like normal debt though. You don't have demands coming through the door and it doesn't skint you for years. You won't have bailiffs coming after your Xbox. You pay it if and when you can.
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Exactly. People get too fixated on the amount of money, rather than the real amount they'll be paying back. If you don't do too well after uni, you'll be paying very little to nothing back, if you do do well, you'll pay quite a bit back, but comparatively nothing to what you actually do earn and gain from going.
 
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