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Tash. said:
I can't really think of how I'd word my definition of flirting, but for me it's either

A) To show you're interested in someone
B) To enhance romantic chemistry
C) If someone's willing to flirt with you, it must mean they value you as at least someone they could relate to and trust, not just another random acquaintance.
D) Basically just to have a laugh and to entertain each other really.

But different people have different personality.

As I said I don't think I'd be able to provide a coherent definition, but I have an idea of it in my head, and to be honest I don't think about what It means, when you flirt you just know it's happening.
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Flirt definition from OED;

Flirt: [verb] behave as though sexually attracted to someone, but playfully rather than with serious intentions
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Tash. said:
I can't really think of how I'd word my definition of flirting, but for me it's either

A) To show you're interested in someone
B) To enhance romantic chemistry
C) If someone's willing to flirt with you, it must mean they value you as at least someone they could relate to and trust, not just another random acquaintance.
D) Basically just to have a laugh and to entertain each other really.

But different people have different personality.

As I said I don't think I'd be able to provide a coherent definition, but I have an idea of it in my head, and to be honest I don't think about what It means, when you flirt you just know it's happening.
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Flirting means 'to tease', 'pretend courtship' or 'act amorously without serious intentions'. You might flirt with a girl you have noticed and she may flirt back, but there is literally no point in flirting with somebody when both of you are already in love with eachother and the sentiments are all out in the open. It would be incredibly weird.
 
Tash. said:
I know how easy flirting is, but It's not easy to find a girl that's willing to flirt back, most girls just immediately hint that they're not interested or they're just miserable.
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Go for drunk girls on a night out. One at the same level of drunkness as you otherwise it's rape I think. Not even joking it's easy as peas.
 
biggeordiedave said:
What level of girl are you going for here? What are your standards like?
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In the looks department, my standards aren't very high to be honest.

But to be honest, I don't have a this thing in my head like a lot of people that would put girls into categories. Like "Ugly", "Average" and "Hot". I'm not like that.

I either find a girl attractive, or I don't, she could be thin, fat, small or tall, it just depends on the girl.

But what I've found is that all the girls I've really fancied, I didn't fancy them in the beginning but when we started talking more and flirted a bit, I was 10x more attracted to them, despite the fact that I found some of them unattractive at first site.

So I don't really have high standards in terms of looks, I can turn a blind eye to certain things really If I like her that much.
 
skalpel said:
Flirting means 'to tease', 'pretend courtship' or 'act amorously without serious intentions'. You might flirt with a girl you have noticed and she may flirt back, but there is literally no point in flirting with somebody when both of you are already in love with eachother and the sentiments are all out in the open. It would be incredibly weird.
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I would still flirt with a girl I loved though, of course I'd be a bit more serious more of the time I think, but It's something I think I'd always do with a girl, just for fun.
 
Tash. said:
I would still flirt with a girl I loved though, of course I'd be a bit more serious more of the time I think, but It's something I think I'd always do with a girl, just for fun.
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Why though?! It wouldn't add anything to the relationship, you'd end up repeating yourself which becomes tedious.
 
Amnesiac. said:
Why though?! It wouldn't add anything to the relationship, you'd end up repeating yourself which becomes tedious.
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I seriously don't think I'm on the same wave length as you lot here.

I don't mean I'd just repeat pick up lines to a girl I'd loved for years, I mean I'd still talk sexy and stuff like that.
 
Tash. said:
I seriously don't think I'm on the same wave length as you lot here.

I don't mean I'd just repeat pick up lines to a girl I'd loved for years, I mean I'd still talk sexy and stuff like that.
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I don't want to sound harsh here, but it's not that we're not on the same wavelength, I just think we're more experienced in this situation.
 
Tash. said:
In the looks department, my standards aren't very high to be honest.

But to be honest, I don't have a this thing in my head like a lot of people that would put girls into categories. Like "Ugly", "Average" and "Hot". I'm not like that.

I either find a girl attractive, or I don't, she could be thin, fat, small or tall, it just depends on the girl.

But what I've found is that all the girls I've really fancied, I didn't fancy them in the beginning but when we started talking more and flirted a bit, I was 10x more attracted to them, despite the fact that I found some of them unattractive at first site.

So I don't really have high standards in terms of looks, I can turn a blind eye to certain things really If I like her that much.
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<laugh> Nicely put.

Good attitude to have though <ok>.
 
Tash. said:
I seriously don't think I'm on the same wave length as you lot here.

I don't mean I'd just repeat pick up lines to a girl I'd loved for years, I mean I'd still talk sexy and stuff like that.
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Once in a relationship that isn't classed as flirting, as you aren't pretending to have an intimacy which isn't there in reality.
 
Well. Last nights, and todays comments have only made one thing clear to me.

Tash's Dash for Gash night out. MUST go ahead.

Never fear Tash. We'll have you in some sort of bush my the end of the night.
 
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