Shearer's ebar

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Sorry but after being called ugly plenty of times by girls, and because I've thought I was ugly since I was 12, the self image is just stuck in my head.

I had that problem when I was in school, got loads of adds on Myspace (Oldschool) through friends off girls from other schools, I got about 10 girls like me at one (Not a hyperbole either). Just get yourself out there with Facebook or something, works out eventually :)
 
I kind of did lose confidence for a while, when I was in my old job, loads of people looked at me in a really weird way, and when some people thought I wasn't looking, they'd stare at me in a really threatening way.

Then when I went downstairs in my work place into another department, and had to drop off some work files, people would give me weird looks.

Then, and this is the big one, when I used to walk home from work, there were a few roads where traffic used to line up, and I'd be walking on the pavement next to all the cars, and most people used to stare at me or give me more weird looks through their car windows. Some people used to point and get others in the car to look at me.

Some innocent little kids who didn't really care looked at me and went "ugghh".

After all the negative looks and comments I've had about me over the last 7/8 years or so, and the fact that I've not had any interest from girls at all, sort of makes you understand why I think I'm not attractive to others.