Not being an idiot far from it. As the saying goes you can't help someone that won't help themselves. You can see specialists etc but you know the best therepists are ? Your best friend and family. No one will ever in that circle judge you and always just want what's best for you.
Yes . . . . you're being an idiot, marra Seriously, by now you'll know that this/our little village is full of people who are willing to help in any way (with the odd exception) that we can . . . . talking, going for a pint or whatever. All that you need to do is to tell us how you'd like us to help As far as I'm concerned your/anybody's problem is ours
Just had a flick through some coursework and this stood out to me so much simple yet very powerful message.