Perhaps it's just that some are prepared to take offence at the drop of a word, while others couldn't give a toss at anything that doesn't actually hurt them.
For example I've never been bothered about being referred to as a 'Brit'.
MOST Australians don't care about being called 'Ossie's'.
Both of these terms are often meant to be offensive, but it doesn't work if the person that they are aimed at refuses to be offended.
****** was developed from Negro which is Spanish origin, It's racist if used against black people as it's derogatory. But not for black people to use it them selves because White people decided it was derogatory not them. Honky comes from the Easten European word for Bowhunk and is generally not derogatory for white people to say to white people(honky tonk man) But black people used it in a derogatory term to them meaning White Devil used. So both words are both racist and not racist depending on who is saying it. So it's about context.
Aussie use the word Pommies for English and it's also the same derogatory level as the others. They're basically calling us criminals. Named after the red Pom poms on the head of British prisoners being transported to Aus.
Aussie and Brits aren't derogatory, it's just shortened of where they're from. Paki wouldn't have been deemed racist is it wasn't for the amount of Indians, Sir-Lankens and Bangladeshi getting miss called it by Brits so it's no surprise that bit of shortened word became racist.
