My wife worked for many years in our village primary school and she thinks that she can also pin point how and when things changed. The teachers were told that instead of sitting the children down to learn and be disciplined, the staff were encouraged to be more friendly and more like the children. No shouting at them if they misbehaved, they were not to assert their authority but to reason with them.
I had the head teacher come to my house one evening to apologise for giving the slipper to my son. She explained that he had repeatedly been told to sit properly on his chair and not kneel on it. The order was ignored, he fell through the back of it, and in the end they had to saw the back off the chair to get him out. He of course had not mentioned it when he arrived home because he knew that he would get no sympathy from us, and the teacher would be backed up.
What a change though in the following years. Parents turning up at the school to complain that the little dears were not being looked after properly because they arrived home with grazed knees having fallen over at playtime. Children sent to the school clearly unwell, yet the parents could not be contacted as they put their jobs ahead of the kids. These sort of things were happening in a quiet countryside area, not an inner city area where I imagine the problems to be worse.
I had the head teacher come to my house one evening to apologise for giving the slipper to my son. She explained that he had repeatedly been told to sit properly on his chair and not kneel on it. The order was ignored, he fell through the back of it, and in the end they had to saw the back off the chair to get him out. He of course had not mentioned it when he arrived home because he knew that he would get no sympathy from us, and the teacher would be backed up.
What a change though in the following years. Parents turning up at the school to complain that the little dears were not being looked after properly because they arrived home with grazed knees having fallen over at playtime. Children sent to the school clearly unwell, yet the parents could not be contacted as they put their jobs ahead of the kids. These sort of things were happening in a quiet countryside area, not an inner city area where I imagine the problems to be worse.
The list is endless.....