The high foot, the elbow, any of the challenges made by your own players that were worse have been glossed over. If they've been mentioned, it's been fleetingly. If Poleon deserved a red for a push that is not typically dangerous that unfortunately caused an injury, then any of those other challenges definitely deserved a red and we'd have been 10 leeds players vs 7 watford players or something like that.
The most irritating thing about this whole situation is the "we were robbed" attitude of your fans, demonising Poleon for costing you a shot at the big time when in reality your team were very lucky to finish the game with 10 men and your own side bottled it.
Putting your foot high when you can see a player going for a header, that's serious foul play. His foot clattered into Varney's head, nothing given, yet I don't see your fans whining about your own player putting himself in that dangerous position, it still all comes back to "Poleon should have been off and we should have had an easy time". At least with Poleon a lack of intention lets him off the hook, a high foot is against the rules, the player knows it is against the rules, and going in for a challenge like that when you can clearly see the player - it was intentional. He intended to get the ball through a dangerous challenge, it's serious foul play and it's a red card offence.
There were several of these incidents in the game, all of them accountable to Watford players, and the excuse for every one of them is "it was an accident". A high foot into somebody's face is not an accident, just keep your sodding foot down. A high foot is always dangerous, a push in the back is rarely dangerous. That is how you determine if a challenge is dangerous play. Is it dangerous in normal circumstances?
Your post relieves Cassetti of any responsibility for that high challenge which was, by the law of the game, serious foul play, and then implies again that Poleon made a "malicious" challenge, a challenge that is rarely dangerous and by the laws of the game cannot be considered serious foul play. As many have said, he'd have had to have had snooker player like precious to be able to maliciously intend to take both players out. The intent was clearly to simply put Anya on his arse and give himself a better chance of getting the ball, and it goes no further than that. It's not surprising that none of us Leeds fans have any respect for your opinion on this matter when in the same post you acquit a player who made a dangerous high challenge (that could have easily seriously injured Luke Varney) of any responsibility, then demonise a young player for a nudge that resulted in an injury that only clairvoyants and Dr Who could know about. It's double standards. Ignore the outcome and you see Cassetti's challenge is dangerous and predictably dangerous, Poleon's is not. Red card for Cassetti, free kick and a slap on the wrist for Poleon. Those are the rules of the game, and that is how the rules should remain.