I don't think OLM is saying that that we should love the perpetrators.Yes, let's express our love for the perpetrators of this horror.
Everyone just saying how sorry they are and offering condolences is rather facile.
Having said that, I think it is reasonable to discuss what can be done in a calm way. Unfortunately, others seem to take this as an opportunity to attack people for their "lack of understanding" and try to make out they are superior because all they want to do is react after the event and explain to the terrorists that she shouldn't be doing what they are doing. Quite simply, I don't think this is a sufficient response. When people come up with sensible responses and people who are promoting their "understanding" cannot effectively counter their ideas they respond by giving the impression that their opponents have said something they didn't say and attack that. These people's comments are totally worthless because their who way of thinking is based on lies.
I can live with that.