I agree to an extent. But then there are also on rare occasions title winners who AREN'T universally hated. So it's not like it has to go hand in hand.
Let's face it, you can be a loser and not respected, a loser and respected, a winner and not respected or, the holy grail... a winner and respected. Everyone wants to be that fourth option, but hardly anyone can. The question with Mourinho is whether he can only be a winner by doing stuff that inherently makes him not be respected. Or are his winning methods doomed to being perennially hated?
Either way, why should he care if he wins? There's no reason for him to want to be respected given his trophy haul, so it's just a bit puzzling to see why he vaguely does seem to care about it in the slightest when he realises he isn't respected.