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Today at 02.30 my wife died in a Hospice after the illness progressed far faster than expected, married 46 yrs with two wonderful kids and four brilliant grandkids
Carol changed my life after we met and married, she gave me direction and strength in life and continued with all of our family , no more pain and at peace after a six month struggle with Pancreatic Cancer (it was hardly a fair fight as she had no chance of a fair fight ), RIP Carol ,a COYS even though she knew nothing about football but with three current generations of Spurs fans in the family she had no choice
 
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Sorry Alfie.

Difficult to say anything, except I'm glad you felt able to share it here.
 
Condolences Alfie. I hope it's not too long before all the memories of happy times overcome the recent grief.
 
There are no words to express how we feel for you and your family Remember all those good times you had, it may help to ease the pain you must be feeling
 
So sorry for your loss, Alfie.

Sincere and deepest condolences to you and your family.
 
Thanks for letting us know Alfie. Sincere condolences to you and all your family - you are in our thoughts.
 
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Alfie Conn said:
Today at 02.30 my wife died in a Hospice after the illness progressed far faster than expected, married 46 yrs with two wonderful kids and four brilliant grandkids
Carol changed my life after we met and married, she gave me direction and strength in life and continued with all of our family , no more pain and at peace after a six month struggle with Pancreatic Cancer (it was hardly a fair fight as she had no chance of a fair fight ), RIP Carol ,a COYS even though she knew nothing about football but with three current generations of Spurs fans in the family she had no choice
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So sorry for your loss of a wonderful wife and friend
 
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My baby boy was born and died 31 yrs ago today ... time dont heal ****

Never work on the day...my job is really understanding so have been to his memorial tree to be with him...back im the day you didnt get a birth certificate if a baby was born prematurely and died with in mins so couldnt get a death certicate so couldnt have a funeral.
Mrs RCL (not his mum) got me a tree in Greenwich Park to help me cope back in 2005. Shes working in sheffield so went on my own. Was good to spend time with him but today the world can go and ****ing burn...sorry to dump this on here but cant say **** like this to any one in the real world.
 
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My baby boy was born and died 31 yrs ago today ... time dont heal ****

Never work on the day...my job is really understanding so have been to his memorial tree to be with him...back im the day you didnt get a birth certificate if a baby was born prematurely and died with in mins so couldnt get a death certicate so couldnt have a funeral.
Mrs RCL (not his mum) got me a tree in Greenwich Park to help me cope back in 2005. Shes working in sheffield so went on my own. Was good to spend time with him but today the world can go and ****ing burn...sorry to dump this on here but cant say **** like this to any one in the real world.
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We should all feel honoured that you are prepared to share this.
I think your remembrance of this is to be commended.
 
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remembercolinlee said:
My baby boy was born and died 31 yrs ago today ... time dont heal ****

Never work on the day...my job is really understanding so have been to his memorial tree to be with him...back im the day you didnt get a birth certificate if a baby was born prematurely and died with in mins so couldnt get a death certicate so couldnt have a funeral.
Mrs RCL (not his mum) got me a tree in Greenwich Park to help me cope back in 2005. Shes working in sheffield so went on my own. Was good to spend time with him but today the world can go and ****ing burn...sorry to dump this on here but cant say **** like this to any one in the real world.
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I think he'd be very proud of his dad.

You're a top top bloke RCL.

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