Nowt wrong with a man having high standards Gordon
Apologies about the "nowt". Local colloquiallism don't you know.![]()
Get him telt wedding cake.
As you have already said before. Some of my posts dont need a spell checker but needs a translator.
Nowt wrong with a man having high standards Gordon
Apologies about the "nowt". Local colloquiallism don't you know.![]()
Not patronising at all Terry. You know I'm aware of that mate. I'm sorry for your loss. Personally, I identify the red and the blue as the killer. One reason could be severely depressed and suffer from severe anxiety, throw that in with an addictive behaviour then you have the recipe for disaster. I know it's a touchy subject but your always the first yourself to comment on these yourself.See here's where this thread will get close to the bone.
You're looking at this purely subjectively, based on what you think... here me out.
My dad had severe depression and a gambling addiction and he killed himself.
You look at that sentence and you identify the red part as the killer and I identify the blue part as the killer (I'm colour blind if I've got either of those wrong).
The fact is, both lead to the death of the person, but without the (direct) blue bit, my dad would possibly still be alive.
Without the (indirect) red bit, the man is still dead 100% of the time.
That's the only way I can explain it, sorry if it seems a bit patronising.
I know. Things are reclassified all the time as Brian has said.
I wonder how many of those men that were shot for desertion in WW1 would now be diagnosed with PTSD?
Not patronising at all Terry. You know I'm aware of that mate. I'm sorry for your loss. Personally, I identify the red and the blue as the killer. One reason could be severely depressed and suffer from severe anxiety, throw that in with an addictive behaviour then you have the recipe for disaster. I know it's a touchy subject but your always the first yourself to comment on these yourself.
My mum told me when I was 16, funny story actually...
He died when I was two, but she told me he died when I was 6 shortly after my granddad died, she realised I could deal with 'death' at that age. What she told me aged 6 was that he died of a heart attack.
Ok
Fast forward 10 years and I'm having a medical (part of the Armed Forces thing) in Guy's Hospital in London, at the specialist heart unit, to see if the condition is ****ing hereditaryI get back home off the train and my mum tells me he killed himself and I just wasted a full day going to London, to get some specialist to tell me my heart is in tip top shape
I use him as a barrier in my life, to stop me going to the lengths he went to, to 'solve' his problems. I've seen first hand the destruction he caused the family and I could never do that to my family. I sort of use that to tell myself he didn't die in vain. He dug me out of some dark places in his own way.
It's really easy for me to talk about it because I never knew him, we never bonded.
OK my lady was 3 when her Dad died, she was also told when she was three that he died of heat failure, when she was 13 she overheard her step father arguing with her mother where he mentioned the suicide of her father. When she was 15 she was told the truth. She doesn't remember her dad either, one vague memory that's it.
Try the test fella. No harm in it.
http://www.bpddemystified.com/resources/online-test/

I had a long term problem with my chest and I thought it was CostochondritisSorry to here that fella.
How long have you known about what happened to your dad fella?
Costochondritis combined with Anxiety, depression, Your da killed himself. All those things happened to Georgie mate. Have you discussed BPD with your doctor? You mirror my lady's symptoms and life events.

It's amazing innit, how many people have gone through exactly the same situation as yourself but you think you're on your own and nobody would understand.
We're losing touch with humanity every day as a race, putting all of our faith into technology, it's a massive shame.
Humans have the ability to heal each other, without drugs.
I'll give it a shot![]()
I had a long term problem with my chest and I thought it was Costochondritis
And was treated with strong pain killer pads to be placed on my chest.
Since the I have been diagnosed with degenerative disc decease together with my trapped nerve problem.we just have to try our best.having said all that there are a lot of people worse off.god bless to them.its not nice to here such sad news
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Too true. In a time where we're discovering more about mental health than ever the world is becoming so impersonal. Sharing will always be an essential part of mental health therapy but the opportunity to do so seems harder and harder. Especially as an official line of treatment. It's just pills for everything.
No need to apologise mate, as you said we've acknowledged problems in our respective countries which we're concerned about. Take care brotherNo harm done mate, I'm sorry for digging up the other thread.
We're arguing over the terminology of the word 'direct' here, that's all.
We both accept that mental health is a killer, that's all that matters.
One severe two moderate
My severe one is already being dealt with by my 'smiling friend' I'm meeting her next week, hopefully she's not some hippy like Cardew or she could end up stuffed inside her own arse
I know mate, pills, pills, pills, I took your advice by the way and I went back in on Sunday, been every day since and already feeling the benefit. Sometimes the solution is right under your nose, cheers mate.
Costochondritis can be brought on by many things, chances are your other ailments have triggered it. Anxiety triggered it with my lady and with Tel it will have almost certainly being a combo of his Anxiety and training.
Your correct the trouble is its hard to diagnose.Costochondritis can be brought on by many things, chances are your other ailments have triggered it. Anxiety triggered it with my lady and with Tel it will have almost certainly being a combo of his Anxiety and training.

You're back in the Gym?
Your correct the trouble is its hard to diagnose.
If the patent knows nowt about the ailment that dosnt help.
Doctors are reluctant to say it is Costochondritis .
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Look harderIm still looking for this addicts thread that has been mentioned.

I am back mate, yeah.
The gym is my sanctuary, wasn't very pleasant on day one mind, almost puked my guts up but powered through!
