Lardiman

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Hi everyone.

Looking back, I have come to appreciate that no good ever came from any dispute or enmity I've engaged in with anyone.
So before it's too late, I would like to offer an olive branch and an apology to all the folks I have fallen out with down the years.
On fans' forums as well as in other parts of life.

IncorruptibleAddick
Reamsofverse
Seriouslyred
Mundell
Bexleyboy
DickPlumb
Royston

and doubtless many others.
Not asking for forgiveness, but just saying sorry for any hurt or offence I have ever caused.
Life really is too short to be harbouring grudges and being unfriendly without any good cause.
So I would like to make my peace with everyone whose life I have made worse rather than better, by anything I might have said or done.
Just one more time.

<peacedove>
Lardy.
 
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I'm a veteran of this forum, and I can honestly say that I've never seen anything offensive in Lardy's posts. The reason being that they are never personal. Having a different point of view to someone is natural, not offensive, and if they are sincerely held then you have to respect the fact.
 
Taking inspiration from our man Lardi I have also taken a moment to reflect….

My conclusion is I stand by all I’ve said on the topic of the global moderator. As you were guys…
 
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Personally I see no point in creating unnecessary angst or enmity.

However, if someone is a complete ar*e and does you wrong, then tell them they’re a complete ar*e and do them wrong.

That’s the whole point of my avatar and forum name.

If you get bitten then bite back twice as hard and take some flesh.
 
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I was angry with Roland back in September 2015, and that anger drove me onto fans' forums in search of expression.
But anger is a poor life companion.
If you cannot master it, it masters you.
Now when things make me angry and adversarial, is it really the way I feel? Or simply that old anger looking for a new target.

Time to let it go now I think. Use the energy and time it takes to do something better. Something worth remembering.
 
Not asking for forgiveness, but just saying sorry for any hurt or offence I have ever caused.
Life really is too short to be harbouring grudges and being unfriendly without any good cause.
So I would like to make my peace with everyone whose life I have made worse rather than better, by anything I might have said or done.
Just one more time.

<peacedove>
Lardy.
Good words Lardi, but the four I have highlighted above, amongst your longer post, negate the other 130.

So as my tranquil and contemplative friend @ElfsborgAddick wisely says “F*ck ‘em”