My old man (77 years old) is very much a NE supporter (although he leans towards SAFC because of me) and he would go to both clubs as a kid. My dads mate (aged about 60) who used to take me to the game when I was about 14, also used to go to both back in the 50's and 60's.
I think this 'hatred' and isolationism started to come about in the late70's and 80's but was completely cemented by Sir John Halls attempt to dominate the NE sporting scene by events like buying and closing down the Durham Wasps, trying to close the Sunderland basketball team and attempting (unsuccessfully of course) to erase SAFC from the media spotlight in the ealry 90's.
I think the last 20 years has seen the biggest partizan feelings just get stronger and stronger. I'm not sure how we go back from here though as both sets of fans are hell bent on hatred.
Contrary to popular belief I dont hate them. I have many b&w friends at work and from school in Chester le Street but I do love winding uo the cybermags on these forums a lot. Lol
I prefer good old fashioned banter. Just wish we had something to fight back with but as they say, what comes around goes around.
my dad was a mag but my grandad used to go to whoever was playing at home and used to take my dad along till he was of a age where he went on his own hence the mags.What i found funny was the fact my grandad would go to roker park when the mackems were at home during a derby (always followed who was at home) despite saying he was a mag and living in gateshead..guess that's the way it was then,agree about it changing in the 70's and esp.the 80's
edit: this could be why there was massive attendances in those days


