i was a proud member of 'the chipper club'...until my teens then i had no chance of escaping 'the bumps' as my birthday was in the echo.
dad carrying half the fire from the sitting room on the dustpan to get a fire going in my bedroom to warm it up, waking up and drawing in the ice on the windows.
'all in football' on the green, age, ability and sex not relevant, if you could kick a ball you were in and no fecker complained if you were sh1te we just joined in and enjoyed it.
going into the school sports day knowing fine well there was no way you were going to win or even get top three, many aimed just to not come last and even if you did there was no fecker to console you, offer you a safe place and counselling after they give you an award for trying...if you were sh1t you were sh1t, you accepted it and found something you were good at.
one thing i really miss and it might sound daft to many is the men going to work, the flat caps, work jeans/dungarees, donkey jacket or similar, the pimpled work boots and most important the haversack filled with bait and the days paper sticking out the back pocket...then them returning home, all around the same time, dirty, knackered and looking forward to getting their feet up but every single one of them with a proud look on thier faces cos they knew they had earned for their families.