Mind you i don't understand why folk expect the state not want to reclaim years and years of care home fees from the estate and instead let them have the money .
I feel that bit is a different argument, in that I've always said that we put our old folk in a home and somehow diminish our responsibilty when doing so. I know both sexes work now, and looking after an elderly family member is a full time job, but I do think in SOME cases, people could be looking after their own at home, but there has never been any assessments to justify you breaking that ownership of family members. Some people shouldn't even be in hospital, they are taking up a bed, because a place in a home might not have been sought yet, yet there seems to be no obligations on the family home, I just find that weird as a social structure.
