You are confusing/conflating a lot of different issues here.
I have 3 kids all married, 3 of the 6 can and do work from home, child care has not changed, jobs still need to be done so children still need to be looked after. You are either working or looking after the kids you don't/ shouldn't get paid for one of them.
Yes lot's of jobs can be done from home and maybe should be to negate needless travel and carbon production, no problem with that and should continue where possible.
Then we have company's (and i know a fair few so others will know many more) who are still furloughing staff (or certain staff ) when their part of the job is quiet meaning they keep the employee but pay little for them, (pretty sure my company would love to only have to pay me when they called me out to a breakdown)
Then there are others who really don't want things to go back to anything like normal either from fear generated by the news or (and there are many) fear of socialising/going out in the world.
I'm not confusing or conflating anything, I gave an opinion on how I see it. You sound like a dinosaur to me, that's complaining, that someone is getting something better than you. If people want to look after their kids and work at the same time, I'm not seeing a problem with that, if productivity remains the same, or in most cases has improved, well apart from some grouchy grandad that thinks things shouldn't be like that. Why you so bothered what other people are doing anyway, sounds like sour grapes to me - just let people get on with their own thing, and stop bitching over it.
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