Beefy's Corner - The Off-Topic Chat Thread

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Remember that girl I liked a few months ago and then we went out for dinner and I said I liked her it turns out I completely misinterpreted her feelings? Well, I'm pretty sure in response to that that she has decided not to have anything to do with me. It's been four months, and I've suggested meeting up twice. Once was just as suggestion of lunch as I was in town for my second interview (and we used to), and once (just recently) as I'm planning a meet up with a group of friends (a sort of belated birthday party) and both time's she's ignored me.

I think you are trying a bit too hard mate. Women can't stand the thought that a bloke isn't the least bit interested in them.

Their massive self centred egos demand that you be totally fascinated by them and if you are not it leaves them devastated and then they come grovelling.

Women are simple souls my friend although they would like you to think they are oh so very complex.

Women like a shag as much as you do but they would like you to play their elaborate, complex and rather silly games.

My advice is don't join in. Just be self confident and disinterested and they will be begging you for it.
 
PompeyLapras,

there are over 6 billion people in the world, half of them are women. If one girl doesn't want to know there are still 2,999,999,999,999 people left to choose from.

Statistically at least one of them will support Pompey ;-)

That's trillions so not quite so many ;)
 
pompeyLampras if you want I can put in a good word for you with the girl that comes into my work nearly everyday. Think her name maybe Jen but she creeps me out so i'm not so sure. :p

A ringing endorsement if I have ever heard one! :cheesy:

Is this her?

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That's why i'm a dick, women love dick. Well apart from lesbians but they don't count......
 
Maybe PL should try reading The Game or something? I haven't read it myself but I'm told there's some reasonable points about male-female interaction and psychology in there.
 
Maybe PL should try reading The Game or something? I haven't read it myself but I'm told there's some reasonable points about male-female interaction and psychology in there.

If you want to be a complete douchebag, sure. From the bits I've seen excerpted, it seems mostly to be a guide to eking out one-night-stands with girls who have low self-esteem.
 
If you want to be a complete douchebag, sure. From the bits I've seen excerpted, it seems mostly to be a guide to eking out one-night-stands with girls who have low self-esteem.

Well I'm not suggesting following it as a step-by-step guide to success but from what I've heard I thought that as well as saying "Acting this way will get you lots of women" it also had stuff along the lines of "Doing these things will generally turn women off because…" which could be useful. I know a few people who've read it and found it interesting without becoming skirt-chasing knobs. If you're right about the way it's written then that might be a problem.
 
Well I'm not suggesting following it as a step-by-step guide to success but from what I've heard I thought that as well as saying "Acting this way will get you lots of women" it also had stuff along the lines of "Doing these things will generally turn women off because…" which could be useful. I know a few people who've read it and found it interesting without becoming skirt-chasing knobs. If you're right about the way it's written then that might be a problem.

From a typically-scathing Guardian review:

Strauss himself observes the truth of this, but only in the context of trying to deny that sargers actually hate women. "A side effect of sarging is that it can lower one's opinion of the opposite sex," he confesses. And yet, as he has described it, the inverse is true: a low opinion of the opposite sex is a prerequisite for sarging. The very term "pickup" pictures women as inanimate objects lying on the ground (at least the British equivalent, "pulling", implies two people on the same horizontal plane). The first thing you do to your target is to "neg" her, to deliberately (but as if accidentally) insult her, as Strauss explains, "to lower her self-esteem". (The Layguide terms this, with more explicit violence, a "neg hit".) You will then have to negotiate your way round her "bitch shield" (reflexive rudeness to come-ons), and at some point to "isolate" her, as though she were a Guantánamo Bay prisoner ripe for torture. You will also learn how to symbolically kill your male enemy, the Amog, or Alpha Male of the Group. (Interestingly, Tom Cruise - he of the subliminally orgiastic Top Gun locker-room - pops up to be interviewed by Strauss and worshipped as the ultimate alpha male, though Strauss doesn't dwell on whether Cruise would be a particularly effective role model for the aspiring seducer of women.)
 
From a typically-scathing Guardian review:

Fair enough, I'm not going to defend a book I haven't read. Although I would say it's fairly clear the Guardian are picking the worst parts of the book to highlight. There may be some interesting stuff in there but perhaps there are better places to get it.

I suggested it because I know others who've read it and found it interesting. I also remember reading an article a few years ago called something like "How to get out of the friend zone". Its advice involved a weeks-long setup to try and get your "friend" into bed and contained similarly disparaging language to what the Guardian highlight. That part was all bollocks but at the same time there were some things in it that were interesting and which could basically be boiled down to "Don't come on too strong" but with actual examples of things that you might be doing that perhaps made it harder to get a woman interested.
 
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